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Yeah I Had A Good Idea Of What Went On When I Was Not At Home
Yes, I know my husband is somewhat racist, although obviously not very or he wouldn't have married a black american woman, and wasn't exactly a big fan of my older children not being very nice to them when I was not around. I did not need people to tell me that something isn't right in my household. Bottom line is, whether people agree or not, I was not going to leave my husband and go back to the United States just to please somebody else. 1.) I married my husband at his insistence so we could be a family for the children when I was pregnant with our 1st child together 2.) I was told repeatedly that unless I wanted to end up jail for kidnapping and lose my younger children to my husband's custody, I had best keep my black ** in Argentina with them. My husband made our children Argentine citizens, he has all their papers, and told me point blank that I would NOT be taking his children to the United States so I have been in Argentina for the past 20 years without leaving. As a mother I have had to make some difficult choices and know people judge me for supposedly putting a man ahead of my children, but I have done what I had to do. When I 1st came to this country I had no idea, like most globally ignorant Americans, that I would basically be trapped here and my husband would run the show 100% since this is his country and my black ** doesn't stand a chance against him if things go bad. When my older children told me about their stepfather, tried to tell me about what he did to them when I was not there, and said they didn't want to live with me anymore I told them they was free to go wherever it was that they wanted to be when they turned 18. They did exactly that. My now 30 years old twin sons and 27 year old daughter ask me again and again "Why are you still in ** Argentina with that psycho **?!" The answer is simple and it has nothing to do with our children since our baby is 22 years old now. I stay because he is my husband above all else, despite what he did in the past and how wronged they feel has nothing to do with my marriage to him. Frankly most children are not treated equally by their stepfather, yet they still manage to survive and go on with their lives. I refuse to apologize for the decisions I had to make in the past, because I did the best I could. Turning a blind eye to the bruises on my boy's cheek was a ** of a lot easier than being out on the streets in a country where I didn't speak the language if I'd ** my husband off even more trying to confront him about happened!
**! Get a bit more concise and I'll read it!
If you didn't have the choice to remove them, there's not much else you could have done. The other commenters have never heard of a no win scenario apparently.
But you clearly have stockholm syndrome.
You are a horrible person and mother. Smh
A parent should always protect their children or strive to do so. But, some individuals don't and sometimes a childs suffering, is from the one's who are meant to protect them.
I'm happy I'm not a parent, because if I was and sometime hurt my children/child regardless of who they're, they would tragically regret it.