What's a girl to do

I have been married to the same man for 16 years. We have 3 children that I love more than anything. problem is, My Husband has anger issues. He gets very anygry over anything and then he acts really immature. He is at time abusive. Not beating me up abusive just shoving and yelling. I used to cry and try to fight back now I just tell him not to touch me and dream of the day when I can leave and care for my children on my own.
I am a Stay at home mom for the last couple of years. I have no way to provide for my Children. They deserve to have a good life. I just don't know if I could provide for there Physical needs let alone there wants. I love my Husband and it has gotten better over the years but I just feel so alone. Is it worth going through a Divorce and then worring how I would provide and then possible be alone the rest of my life. Who would want to marry a Lady with 3 kids and a crazy ex?
I fear that people who havent been in a relationship like mine will think I am stupid for staying. Its not all bad. I have a beautiful home and for most of the time... Life is good. I just want what is best for my kids. I've talked to them about making ggod choices when they marry. Things to look for, etc. What do I do??? Leave of stay??

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  • Pray for the dude. Let him know that you love him and that you are worried the anger will be bad for his health..heart attack stroke, etc... and that you don't to lose him...and that the kids need him. Don't give up. You could leave him and find yourself in a relationship where your new hubby is molesting your kids. How would you feel then? If your husband starts beating you then bail as fast as possible.

  • Stay until you find his replacement. Flirt a lot with guys you find attractive. Have an affair or two. When you've found a guy who wants you and your children leave the a****** without explanation.

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