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YOUR NO BETTER
My gfs bro is almost 30 his dad got him a job where he works in petrochemical plants he started in the field and his dad gave him a good scholarship from the same company used it to go to school and moved up to a office setting. He's always been a arrogant spoiled Mexican brat. He lives with his parents still and drives a corvrtte. He's always bashed& thought he's better than everyone else because he went to "school". He's always tried to make me feel less of a person judged and stepped on. I never asked anyone for anything now that I got a certificate I can support my gf and me. I make good money around 2k a week I don't work in a office but I have my own company truck. I don't show off I help anyone I can. I'm humble. I recently closed a deal on a new home. Purchased my first pick up truck after so many years. I found a good wife. Who's stuck with me
Through it all since I started with nothing. For some odd reason at my gfs - soon to be wife;fiances get together he bro always looks me up and down sees what I have on what car I'm driving what phone I have etc. He's a preppy kind of guy shorts above the knee tight shirts and sperrys he's Mexicsn dark complected. It doesn't make me feel uncomfortable but I do find it disrespectful that he points fingers at me regarding the fact my gfs family never liked me until now that I make good money her brother just seems to not get my good side I don't want anything to come between my dilemas with my fiancés family but I would want to regard the issue with him personally because I never did anything wrong for him to make ne feel less of a person around his family. I never have disrespected his sister home etc. But I'm the bad guy. Should I worry about it now that me and my soon to be wife are moving into our new home and settling and getting married or should I ignore it and just keep it moving
Don't listen to this idiot below me Just do you don't owe nothing to nobody
I hope you realize that the title should be "YOU'RE no better," and not "your." Apparently you failed 5th grade English class!
^Apparently you're the spelling and grammar police. Stop being so judgemental. There's a lot wrong with the postings on this site, spelling is the bottom of the barrel. You should also take in to account that there are many people who post that they are not from the U.S. and even if they are residing in the U.S., English is not their first language.
** him he needs to focus on him you focus on you the fact your going to marry his sister and the fact I assume
Your fiancé is happy is all he should be worried about. Your worked hard for your ** don't let him or her family bring you down stay humble
You are marrying into her family, so it would be nice if you could get along. You don't need to be best buddies. Chances are, you may have more in common with him than you think if you could get past all this materialistic/competition B.S. stuff that seems to surrounding the two of you..whether it's real or just imagined. Just don't make it a thing and it won't be a thing. P.S. This doesn't have to be some competition. You two are living very separate and different lives. And you really don't need to justify what you do, what you make or anything to him. What you need to be concerned with is what your fiance thinks. It's one thing to go to him and clear the air and make sure you two are good. You say that he tries to make you feel less of a person or judged. However, he really doesn't have that much power over you unless you let him. I understand words are hurtful. But his need to be nasty towards you is most likely because he's not happy with where he is in his life. But he needs to figure that out for himself. You have to find a way to not let him affect you. Be confident in who you are what you do and the path that you're on. Talking with him couldn't hurt just keep it chill and maybe start the conversation with hoping everything is alright between the two of you...and see where it goes.