For one of those arrogant ** who started out sounding so self-assured (as they tend to), it sure dried up on this post didn't it? Delusional ** like this only ever learn the hard way. I'd say let it be a lesson to other delusional ** on this site, but they also think they're special. Oh well. Lol
And it you manage to do that, there's no guarantees someone else won't take this person from you!
Karma is a **!
You should be ashamed of yourself. Your behavior is inexcusable.
I agree with you. She's a bad friend (to the wife) and a bad mistress (to the husband).
**.
#cheatinghomewrecker
This person isn't the only one at fault, what about the person whose married? Why did they decide to cheat? Why did that person betrayal their wife?
It takes two to tango and the op shouldn't solely be the scapegoat for the cheating, the person who has something to lose if this affair becomes known, is the one whose primarily at fault.
Let us know how it goes
+Good luck, hope you get him
Thanks to both of you. Yes, I'll post again as the process evolves. To be honest, I'm quite confident that I'll succeed: his wife is not much competition for a woman like me. :) I appreciate your notes.
Hmmm. Looks like you've stopped responding. Did you fail in your little quest, did you finally get shot, or did the late-stage syphilis take hold?
I'm curious to know the psychological factor behind this, or rather the story. Would you be willing to elaborate on the history between you two? I'm not interested in anything more, I know you're set on this man. If your answer is yes, then where should we continue the conversation?
I've known him and his wife for several years, and they both liked me even though they didn't like my previous boyfriend, who I lived with for three years. Anyway, I broke it off with that guy almost a year ago, and even though I tried to respect this particular marriage, because his wife and I are medium-friends, the more I was around them the more I saw how poorly she treats him. He is quite a catch and he could have done much better than her, and finally I decided that he SHOULD do better: me. We started an affair and we see each other fairly regularly, although he has MUCH more ** with me than with her. I think I've waited long enough for her to see the error of her ways (in fact, I've tried to counsel her as to how to do better by him, but without success), and so I'm going to start moving on him in a more formal and more aggressive way. Thanks for the message.
I hope everything you've just said makes people realize you're not the "bad guy" in this situation. Quite the opposite in fact. You must be a very attractive woman, who cares very deeply about him. What about him do you love? How did you meet?
That is so very nice of you to say, and I appreciate it very much. Even though I obviously know he's married and that what we're doing is "wrong" by societal and religious standards, I really do care about him deeply and am truly in love with him. As for what I love about him, there are many things, but two are the most important. First, he is very sweet and supportive; even though he does NOT get that in return from his wife, he still gives it. I've tried pointing that out to her but she just says "oh that's just the way he is" like it's not a big deal. But it IS a big deal, and she doesn't see it that way. I take her place now and I give him the support and sweetness that is wasted on her. Another thing is that he is an amazing AMAZING lover. Extremely well-endowed but not proud of it, he just uses what he has to the maximum pleasure of his partner. When he and I become a couple, I'm going to ** him every night and every morning, to make up for how much he doesn't get from her. (She's wasting that magnificent **, too.) As for meeting them, we met at a political campaign function about 10 years ago and became friends and stayed in touch even though our candidate lost that race. :) He hated my last boyfriend (not the same one I had when we all met) and encouraged me to leave him. Thanks again for your kind words.
He sounds like an amazing man, and YOU sound like amazing woman, ignore the disrespectful comments about you two from others. At the risk of sounding immature, the ** between you two sounds unbelievable, I can only hope that one day, my partner and I are as good as you. It's honestly sweet how much you want to make love to him to compensate for what his wife doesn't give him. At this point, how do you plan on convincing him to leave his wife?
Aww couldn't find a man of your own? Gotta resort to taking someone else's husband? Sad pathetic c*nt. You can't take something that doesn't want to be taken, so this could go either way for you. Also, he probably will cheat on you. If he did it once it's not a tough line to cross again. Doesn't mean he'll leave you...just means he will probably put his cocklette into another sl*t similar to yourself. :D
There's nobody else close to me, and he knows that, so there's no chance he'll ever stray when he comes to me for good. He knows there's no ** half as good as this **, and if he gets cut off from this **, there'll be no second chances. He won't ever cheat.......because he won't ever WANT to cheat. I will see to that, and believe me: I know how to keep them home. But thanks for the thought and for the message. I appreciate both very much! And by the way.......you sound **!!!!
All d best & be prepared also when someone else will take him from you. Happy PIF
LOL! That's a good one! But there's not a chance that anyone would be able to get this particular man away from me. But thanks for the laugh.
This sounds terrible, but get him to leave her before anything... Keep the faith. I am rooting for you... If you know you belong together, don't let anyone stop you. I have to vent a confession on here about my own situation while I am at it though lol
I had someone stolen from me many years ago and I am just waiting (sometimes impatiently) and trying to buy my time until he realizes the error of his ways and I am able to successfully steal him back... This ** sits there and says he's her soulmate and **... No **, he isn't your soulmate, he's been mine since birth... You spread your ** legs from day one and he played right into it like YOU wanted because he's a man. He likes **, and A LOT of it... Trust me, I already know this because him and I are one in the same... You played into what he truly wants like a fiddle, and kudos to you for figuring that out from day one...BUT he has always been MY person... Have you been able to successfully ** him AND get him off each time more then 5 times in one night. I highly doubt that.... I am sure you didn't know about that did ya?! What you wanted was someone to raise your child for you, a glorified babysitter, that you give you a decent **. *Claps* you win on that front but think long and hard then on why he would cheat on you so much... I don't know maybe because you two do not belong together... Huh... How bout dat?
Woo-Hoo! Very **, and very wild! I really hope you get what you want, and although I think it's possible, I would say that you will need to be aggressive in your situation, and keep after him CONSTANTLY! Don't sit back and wait. Don't allow a day to pass without reaching out to him in some way, even if it's small. You need to start getting him back in your bed. Not just once, but regularly. And tell him that: tell him "I don't just want a little of that **, baby, I want it all the time!!!!!" Do the things you know she won't do, and do them nastier than the norm. Be the secret and dirty place he wants to go, the place he cannot get out of his head. Then.......start taping his phone calls to you, and then video him ** you. And always get him to say, "yes, you are SOOOOO much sexier and so much better than her [referring to his **]". Play them for him and if that doesn't get him to come home, then take the recordings to her and play them. Break her heart just like she broke yours. Blow up their relationship, and take what's yours. And btw......I'm not afraid of my man's wife pulling this on ME, because I know his soon-to-be-ex-wife can't compete. :) GOOD LUCK!! And thanks for writing.
Laugh while you can, sweetie. He who cheats with you WILL cheat on you. No matter how much you groom your beef curtains, he will get bored with them eventually.
Wonder how things went
For one of those arrogant ** who started out sounding so self-assured (as they tend to), it sure dried up on this post didn't it? Delusional ** like this only ever learn the hard way. I'd say let it be a lesson to other delusional ** on this site, but they also think they're special. Oh well. Lol
And it you manage to do that, there's no guarantees someone else won't take this person from you!
Karma is a **!
You should be ashamed of yourself. Your behavior is inexcusable.
I agree with you. She's a bad friend (to the wife) and a bad mistress (to the husband).
**.
#cheatinghomewrecker
This person isn't the only one at fault, what about the person whose married? Why did they decide to cheat? Why did that person betrayal their wife?
It takes two to tango and the op shouldn't solely be the scapegoat for the cheating, the person who has something to lose if this affair becomes known, is the one whose primarily at fault.
Let us know how it goes
+Good luck, hope you get him
Thanks to both of you. Yes, I'll post again as the process evolves. To be honest, I'm quite confident that I'll succeed: his wife is not much competition for a woman like me. :) I appreciate your notes.
Hmmm. Looks like you've stopped responding. Did you fail in your little quest, did you finally get shot, or did the late-stage syphilis take hold?
I'm curious to know the psychological factor behind this, or rather the story. Would you be willing to elaborate on the history between you two? I'm not interested in anything more, I know you're set on this man.
If your answer is yes, then where should we continue the conversation?
I've known him and his wife for several years, and they both liked me even though they didn't like my previous boyfriend, who I lived with for three years. Anyway, I broke it off with that guy almost a year ago, and even though I tried to respect this particular marriage, because his wife and I are medium-friends, the more I was around them the more I saw how poorly she treats him. He is quite a catch and he could have done much better than her, and finally I decided that he SHOULD do better: me. We started an affair and we see each other fairly regularly, although he has MUCH more ** with me than with her. I think I've waited long enough for her to see the error of her ways (in fact, I've tried to counsel her as to how to do better by him, but without success), and so I'm going to start moving on him in a more formal and more aggressive way. Thanks for the message.
I hope everything you've just said makes people realize you're not the "bad guy" in this situation. Quite the opposite in fact. You must be a very attractive woman, who cares very deeply about him.
What about him do you love? How did you meet?
That is so very nice of you to say, and I appreciate it very much. Even though I obviously know he's married and that what we're doing is "wrong" by societal and religious standards, I really do care about him deeply and am truly in love with him. As for what I love about him, there are many things, but two are the most important. First, he is very sweet and supportive; even though he does NOT get that in return from his wife, he still gives it. I've tried pointing that out to her but she just says "oh that's just the way he is" like it's not a big deal. But it IS a big deal, and she doesn't see it that way. I take her place now and I give him the support and sweetness that is wasted on her. Another thing is that he is an amazing AMAZING lover. Extremely well-endowed but not proud of it, he just uses what he has to the maximum pleasure of his partner. When he and I become a couple, I'm going to ** him every night and every morning, to make up for how much he doesn't get from her. (She's wasting that magnificent **, too.) As for meeting them, we met at a political campaign function about 10 years ago and became friends and stayed in touch even though our candidate lost that race. :) He hated my last boyfriend (not the same one I had when we all met) and encouraged me to leave him. Thanks again for your kind words.
He sounds like an amazing man, and YOU sound like amazing woman, ignore the disrespectful comments about you two from others. At the risk of sounding immature, the ** between you two sounds unbelievable, I can only hope that one day, my partner and I are as good as you.
It's honestly sweet how much you want to make love to him to compensate for what his wife doesn't give him.
At this point, how do you plan on convincing him to leave his wife?
Aww couldn't find a man of your own? Gotta resort to taking someone else's husband? Sad pathetic c*nt. You can't take something that doesn't want to be taken, so this could go either way for you. Also, he probably will cheat on you. If he did it once it's not a tough line to cross again. Doesn't mean he'll leave you...just means he will probably put his cocklette into another sl*t similar to yourself. :D
There's nobody else close to me, and he knows that, so there's no chance he'll ever stray when he comes to me for good. He knows there's no ** half as good as this **, and if he gets cut off from this **, there'll be no second chances. He won't ever cheat.......because he won't ever WANT to cheat. I will see to that, and believe me: I know how to keep them home. But thanks for the thought and for the message. I appreciate both very much! And by the way.......you sound **!!!!
All d best & be prepared also when someone else will take him from you.
Happy PIF
LOL! That's a good one! But there's not a chance that anyone would be able to get this particular man away from me. But thanks for the laugh.
This sounds terrible, but get him to leave her before anything... Keep the faith. I am rooting for you... If you know you belong together, don't let anyone stop you. I have to vent a confession on here about my own situation while I am at it though lol
I had someone stolen from me many years ago and I am just waiting (sometimes impatiently) and trying to buy my time until he realizes the error of his ways and I am able to successfully steal him back... This ** sits there and says he's her soulmate and **... No **, he isn't your soulmate, he's been mine since birth... You spread your ** legs from day one and he played right into it like YOU wanted because he's a man. He likes **, and A LOT of it... Trust me, I already know this because him and I are one in the same... You played into what he truly wants like a fiddle, and kudos to you for figuring that out from day one...BUT he has always been MY person... Have you been able to successfully ** him AND get him off each time more then 5 times in one night. I highly doubt that.... I am sure you didn't know about that did ya?! What you wanted was someone to raise your child for you, a glorified babysitter, that you give you a decent **. *Claps* you win on that front but think long and hard then on why he would cheat on you so much... I don't know maybe because you two do not belong together... Huh... How bout dat?
Woo-Hoo! Very **, and very wild! I really hope you get what you want, and although I think it's possible, I would say that you will need to be aggressive in your situation, and keep after him CONSTANTLY! Don't sit back and wait. Don't allow a day to pass without reaching out to him in some way, even if it's small. You need to start getting him back in your bed. Not just once, but regularly. And tell him that: tell him "I don't just want a little of that **, baby, I want it all the time!!!!!" Do the things you know she won't do, and do them nastier than the norm. Be the secret and dirty place he wants to go, the place he cannot get out of his head. Then.......start taping his phone calls to you, and then video him ** you. And always get him to say, "yes, you are SOOOOO much sexier and so much better than her [referring to his **]". Play them for him and if that doesn't get him to come home, then take the recordings to her and play them. Break her heart just like she broke yours. Blow up their relationship, and take what's yours. And btw......I'm not afraid of my man's wife pulling this on ME, because I know his soon-to-be-ex-wife can't compete. :) GOOD LUCK!! And thanks for writing.
Laugh while you can, sweetie. He who cheats with you WILL cheat on you. No matter how much you groom your beef curtains, he will get bored with them eventually.