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Dad in 40s - i love my kids, hate my wife, hate being dad
I hate being married and a dad. I love my kids and would die for them but being a father in his 40s i can't stand the lack of freedom, the brain damage and of course the typical woman who just becomes a ** and gets fat cos she is now a mum. Im fit, healthy, look youthful and had dreams with my career. My career is ruined cos it needs hours of work and that work is seen as a day or night out by my wife who works an underpaid 16 hours a week job yet my house is a mess. Suddenly me working has become a jaunt over the last few years. The constant nagging from her and the guilt trips has made my career suffer to the point im only earning 60% of what i did - which is also now my fault. I had the privilege of working from home after i'd built a lucrative and successful career. That career has been destroyed by the lack of respect for my work and the accusations of not participating when im in my home office - when i say i cant do x y or z during working hours i get a feminine uzi fired back at me as if im playing COD.
I aint some man ape but come on! Honestly for all the guys out there just dont do it.... wait til you have achieved what you want to achieve, get your wealth and status then and only then very carefully meet someone and then consider kids - otherwise you will end up miserable and finished. There is a definite difference between male and female after kids - men want to keep being young and healthy and do their thing - women get angry, get ugly and fat then moan endlessly at the guy for not joining in on the fat, life ending, dream ending misery party. I could handle it if at least my house wasn't a dumpster cos she is useless at running a houses hold, i could handle it if she went out and pulled in the bucks and in role swap i could run a decent house hold. This is a warning to all men. You are much better off alone mentally, spiritually and financially.
I agree. Some people are superficial and full of **, regardless of their gender and sexuality (:
Most people, not some. {passive aggressive smilie}