Diapered Husband

Earlier this year my husband, in his mid 30’s, started having bed-wetting accidents. I noticed the accidents mainly seem to happen after having a few drinks on our nights out together. I have also noticed he will randomly have accidents after working extended hours as he doesn’t work the typical eight to five type of job and is an extremely heavy sleeper.

So, the other night I mentioned to him that I would like him to start wearing diapers to bed on the nights he drinks and after the days he works his 16+ hour long shifts. His face immediately turned red and you could tell he felt embarrassed. I reassured him that I was ok with the idea of him wearing protection to bed and reminded him that it would help keep the bed dry.

I love him more than anything in this world and would never look at him any differently for wearing protection. I’ve noticed it appears to be more of a common trend than people may think.

That being said, since he started wearing his pull-up diapers to bed, I noticed that he appears to sleep better and even admitted that he actually likes how comfortable they are to wear. The only issue I have is that I have noticed they leak more often then not.

Should I suggest that he start wearing the tabbed diapers? Everything I read on the internet has said they are much more absorbent and less likely to leak. Just looking for your thoughts.

I know some of you that are reading this may think I’m crazy for suggesting he wear diapers but I don’t look at diapers in a negative light. They are just an available tool to use in order to fix an issue and are harmless. I think he actually looks cute in them. Oddly enough, I feel like it has brought us closer together and I like taking care of him.

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  • Go search adult baby diapers, they are crazy absorbent and super cute and comfy. Try bambino’s website.

  • Probably a combination of factors, notably the 16 hour shifts, are working together to create enough of an issue that he is wetting the bed. It necessarily anything wrong with him, but better management of the factors that are most likely to be causing the events is the best place to start. If diapers are part of that approach, use proper hygiene of course. But if the problem persists, even after management has been attempted, seek professional medical attention. Even if it’s just a proper diagnosis, it’s better to know now and not later, such that any treatment the two of you administer can be justified, or vice versa.

  • It may be a sleep disorder, or maybe he just has a week bladder. Your husband also may actually enjoy wearing diapers. Tost the leaks though, you really should use cloth diapers and plastic pants. They are more work, but do a better job

  • I've a diaper fetish and yes they leak. It's bizarre disposables have become so popular but they just don't live up to the promises. They are ok if your standing but hopeless if you are lying down.

    I suggest plastic pants and good old Terry towling.

  • Disagree, some of the disposable diapers for abdl are super absorbent. I have a lot of experience.

  • He has a sleeping disorder for which he needs treatment. If you address the real issue, he won't need diapers.

  • Incontinence pads you ever to as "Diapers" doesn't resolve your husband's incontinence problem. He should seek medical advice and help. These pads are only temporary fixers and can be used for long term health issues. However, there are permanent solutions to his problem.

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