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Why are people prudish?
Now, I'm just going to put it out there, ** is pleasurable if not done badly. It can be, and really should be, seen as a fun pleasurable and totally normal activity. I think that it shouldn't be seen as a rather unpleasant but necessary thing, and teenagers should be educated in a **-positive way right from when they enter high-school. If ** wasn't put on this weird pedestal and presented as something 'sacred' to kids, then people would be a lot more open to the idea of ** and would experiment earlier than is the case at the moment (just as long as it is within the legal age of consent) and so they would be a lot more experienced.
Personally, I'd like to see a world where ** is just another activity for fun or pleasure, sure an intimate one that not everyone would want to see, but still just one that is totally normal. Friends or strangers that have planned it casually asking each other "hey, want to have **?" being as normal as hugging sounds like a really cool place to live in. A global society where people aren't ostracised for their kinks or who they have ** with isn't even a 'glowing city on the horizon' thing, it should be like that already.
I read one day that in America a female student is statistically more likely to lose friends if they lose their virginity in their teens, whereas a male student is more likely to gain friends. This horrified me, I mean, that's so petty! I lost my virginity a few months after I turned 16 (that's the age of legal consent in my country) with my girlfriend and people at school didn't bat an eye at either of us for it. Some people were congratulatory, some people were dismissive, but noone shamed us or said 'gross', and if they did I would have felt really bad and ashamed.
I don't understand why quite a few people portray ** as some kind of relic that shouldn't be 'defiled' by talking about it freely.
My grandmother was abusive to my mother growing up. She called her a ** when she started her period. The ** up part is, my grandmother was having ** from 15 years old. My mother would've remained a virgin until later on in life, if my step grandfather didn't ** her at 16. After that incident, my mother didn't have a serious relationship until her mid 20s.
I agree with this post.
Well for starters, if you have premarital ** than you will go to **. At least that is what I was told when I was having ** with my girlfriend. Next, (in the USA) if you have ** with your girlfriend who is 16 and you are 18, guess what, you are a sexual predator and you're going to jail. Kind of ** up? Yes it is. That is the law. Funny thing is, a lot of these politicians and preachers that slam an 18 year old boy for having ** with his 16 year old girlfriend are the same ones who are ** pedophiles behind closed doors.
There is actually a 3 year legal age difference. An 18 year old can legally have ** with a 15 year old, but the parents have to approve, or not give enough of a **, one or the other. Lol
And what parent is going to approve a boy having ** with their daughter?
A buddy of mine was dating a girl who was younger than him. He as 17 and she was 16. Her parents didn't like him, and when he turned 18 they turned him in for having ** with a minor. He didn't do any jail time because the judge knew it was **, but he still has to register as a ** offender now. Funny thing is they got married and have kids now. Needless to say they don't talk to her parents.