Too much...

Problem is too many children are getting away with murder these days and dont want too help around the house or clean up after themselves and think the world owes them something. I realy wish more parents acted like parents instead off trying to be friends with their kids. My husband and I bought lovebour chdren and they know their loved. They also know when they crosse the line there will be discipline and thats from groundings. Early bedtime and a smacked bottom over ** and for further disobedience our girls are spanked bare..

There is too many brats around these days. No discipline or respect for parents or authoratie. Most of them are spoilt brats and could do with a smacked bottom and we for one as a family will teach our children morals and respect and when they step out off line or disrespect us or any adult. Then they know its a bare ** smacking..

If you are cutting, there is a lot of pain in your heart. You are cutting to ease the pain because the cutting makes you forget. (I used to gnaw on my fingers at a job I hated, which I no longer do.) This is what I learned in reading and therapy. You needed to vent and I refuse to judge you. You may want to search the 12 steps, self-harm, self-harmers anonymous, cutters anonymous etc. (I cannot remember the exact title of the group, since I went to different ones for other issues; the gnawing was resolved with therapy, time and being fired from the job.) You may also want to search "Emotions Anonymous" as well.

P.S. I do not know if they take your age group. You will want to check. Just know that I refuse to judge you.

The problem is you are 14 years old and you only see half the world through little kid glasses. Stop acting like a spoiled little brat and start helping your mother. I'm sure your mother does things for you that would be your job, but she still does it. Stop crying and help your mother, I'm sure she pays the bills on the house you live in. I'm sure you use the internet that your mother pays for. I'm sure you have a cell phone that your mother pays for. I'm sure you watch TV that your mother pays for, and I know you eat foot that your mother pays for. So the least you can do is help her take care of the younger children.

Do as your mom says honey and if you were my daughter and answerd me back like that my husband and I would bought tann your bare bottom. your a little girl and stop and think about your behaviour. I would take your little ** down and smack your bottom for a long time..

Ok, I kind of agree with you. but the whole comment about taking her little ** down and smacking her bottom for a long time is just creepy. and the fact that you said it twice is even more creepy. Sounds to me like you may be a **.

Im a mother off three daughters and our eldest daughter is just gone 14. We use spanking as part off discipline. Our oldest daughter is a handfull most times. She will refuse too do her chores and and help out with her younger sissters. We give her everything she needs and more. Im sorry if I offended anybody. Its what we beleave in and have and allways will use spanking on our daughters and yes its mostley on their bare bottoms. I beleave parents allow their children to rule the roost too often. But we wont allow it in our home and our eldesd and middle daughter were spanked only yesterday and are bought grounded and are in their beds now..

It's not the spanking that is the problem. It's the fact that you spank her BARE bottom. You can spank a child without removing their pants and **. I was spanked as a child and my parents never pulled down my pants to do it.

My husband and I have allways spanked our daughters on their bare. It is how we were raised and seems too work most times with our girls. I was spanked into my teens by my parents and allways bare as was my husband. Myself and my husband have talked many times about diffrent punishments for our daughters that we try and a spanking always seems to work better and at times seems to be only thing that gets through too our daughters. We have said about letting our oldest daughter keep her ** on. But dont want her to think shes going to get away with her bad behaviour and especialy over the last while. Shes being pushing us too our limit and we always as said give our girls plenty off chances too turn their attitude around. Beleave me when I say that my husband and I live for our girls and they are loved and cared for more than anything and have all they need and more. They are the sweetest girls ever. But like all children they push boundaries and they know there are consaquences. We also hugg our girls after discipline them and let them know there loved and they know why they have being spanked by my husband or myself..

Please dont be so quick too judge. We have diffrent kinds off discipline for our daughters and my husband and I love them more than anything in this world. Our eldest daughter has being pushing boundaries alot lateley and we know its down to her age some what. But she has being bullying her younger sisters 9 and 11. Shes had several notes home from school in last copil off months and three about three weeks ago came home a little drunk. We grounded her and took her phone and she was sent to bed early for a week. But we allways give our girls warnings and chance to improve their behaviour. But at times they need too be spanked. My husband and I were bought spanked grown up and we descided even before we were married its how we would raise our children..