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So, I really just need to vent and no-one listens so... Today my mom got mad at me for not doing HER job the right way (her job is babysitting) because the children made a mess, i tried to talk to her and say "Im only 14 I shouldnt have to take care of 2 toddlers and a 7 month old" and the only thing I got out before she told me to leave her alone was "it's not my job, its yours. Your the adult, not me. You dont even pay me" because, I take care of them everyday, because im homeschooled, and she tells me that i can either watch children or do chores, and then she complains when i dont get my school done! Anyways, today I cut myself, I dont know why...I didnt want to...but I did, and its not small either...its on my right thigh, and its multiple 3in. ones and some are longer...
My husband and I have allways spanked our daughters on their bare. It is how we were raised and seems too work most times with our girls. I was spanked into my teens by my parents and allways bare as was my husband. Myself and my husband have talked many times about diffrent punishments for our daughters that we try and a spanking always seems to work better and at times seems to be only thing that gets through too our daughters. We have said about letting our oldest daughter keep her ** on. But dont want her to think shes going to get away with her bad behaviour and especialy over the last while. Shes being pushing us too our limit and we always as said give our girls plenty off chances too turn their attitude around. Beleave me when I say that my husband and I live for our girls and they are loved and cared for more than anything and have all they need and more. They are the sweetest girls ever. But like all children they push boundaries and they know there are consaquences. We also hugg our girls after discipline them and let them know there loved and they know why they have being spanked by my husband or myself..
The bruises can be photographed long after the look healed. They will leave scars deeper than you know. Maybe she will strike her children too. You approve of someone spanking your grandchildren? I bet you would spank them too. Can't wait to get that ** in the air and hit it, to teach a lesson. Why I bet you would spank another parents kid, if they needed it. Why not? It's just fine with you. It's okay because your parents did it to you.
My sister is the only other adult who is allowed to spank our children and I hers. I dont know why you say its wrong when other forms off discipline dont have the same impression on our daughers. It done my sisster or myself know harm when parents spanked our bare bottoms and I see how it can turn our girls little attitudes and smart mouths at times when other forms off discipline dont work. I take it you have know children and you said you got spanked grown up. What harm has it done you and we never bruises our daughters bottoms. Most times its with our hands only and for repeat offences then its there hairbrush and we spank them twice their age. Our oldest daughter is lucky we are even considering letting her keep her ** on. 14 is still a child and when you see the way kids disrespect their parents and teachers today it renforces that how were discipline our girls is the right way. My parents are bought passed away and were good parents..
I never meant to cause offence and have talked too my husband just after our girls left for school and we bought agree we are doing the right thing with useing spanking as part off discipline. Kelly our oldest and kensey our middle daughter whos 11 are too rescive early bedtime again over next three evenings with bedtime 6.30 after they have bought showerd and will bought rescive a spanking as allways by my husband and I on their bare bottoms each evening before bed. We have talked about it and dont see any reason too change even at 14 which we bought consider to be only a child. I will also ask kelly if shes on her periods when shes due for a spanking. Take care and regardless what you or others may beleave or think its our descission and its allways worked for us..
You are just not getting what I'm saying. I agree with spanking a child as sometimes that is the only thing they understand.
The problem is that you pull down their pants to do it. Why?
You can spank a child and get the same results with leaving their pants on. There is NO point in removing the childs pants. period
I grew up with most off spankings on my bare bottom as did my sister and husband and we can also see the effect on our daughters bottoms when ** are off. Im trying to see your view in this and see what your trying too say. At times I want to give in and leave our eldest daughters ** on because off her age. But shes just being acting up for a while now as said. Apart from drinking and notes home from school and bullying her younger sissters. She ditched school also.and and was caught bullying and younger girl in school and pulled her hair. I was told she also embarassed the younger girl and pulled her skirt up in front off some boys and girls which had the little girl crying. Realy your telling me even then she should have being.allowed keep her ** on. If I do descide to talk too my husband again about our eldest daughter. We may descide allow her keep her ** on but it will be for sure be on her ** and as for our two youngest daughters kensey and zana they will continue too get it on their bare bottoms. I appreciate your thoughts and just cant realy see harm in smacking our daughters bare bottoms..
Why is this so hard for you to understand, It's NOT the spanking.
You failed to answer my question about why you feel the need to pull down their pants???
Spanking has the same result with pants UP, so either you enjoy humiliating them or you enjoy seeing and touching their bare **. Either way, that is wrong. Spank you child with their pants UP. It's about discipline, NOT humiliation or some sick thrill on your part.
Know it most certainley is not. I said we can see our daughters bottoms when we spank them bare and know when their bottoms are red enoufgh and when tears are real and our daughters cry alot quicker with their bottoms bared and as I said it allows us too observe the red on their bottoms. We love our daughters as told you and we have seeind them naked and in diffrent state off dresse. We still bath our youngest and our middle daughter only rescentley started to bath herself. Our daughters are prescious too us and we only ever bare them too spank them. I said also I take it you have no children and im sorry you find our methods off discipline wrong. Our middle daughter as I postvthis is haveing a tantrum because I asked her too go take her shower and come down for her spanking and she also went too slap her little sisters face because she wanted to change tv chanel. I just swatted her bottom and you can tell me you would allow your children when you have them to act like that. Im hoing up too sort our middle daughter out now and to talk with her..