That fat girl
Hi I am a 20F and I have been fat since birth. Majority of my life i never used to have low self esteem or identity issues. But I think I might have now because of my apperance. A couple of boys said that they would have fallen for me if i was not fat, meaning that they love my personality but not my apperance. But that statement didnt affect me much.
Since my late teens I've been exposed to a lot family pressure to lose weight because according to them I am unplesant to look at. 20 years in this society I have never heard a single comment about my body, but I have heard several from my family. They shame my body. They make me feel inferior.
Now I have taken a decision to lose weight taking the critisims as a challenge. when I succeed in it I would tell my family that they are the rudest people on earth and they don't deserve the best of me because they never supported at my worst.