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Whipping my boyfriend
I love my boyfriend and will do anything to please him sexually. However a couple of nights ago he said it would really turn him on for me to whip him. I thought he was joking but he was serious so I agreed to do it. At first I just did it very lightly, almost just playing at it, but he told me no, he wanted me to do it really hard. Reluctantly I did, and I could see that I was causing welts down his back and on his **. But then I also noticed that when a started to do it hard he got a huge ** and was clearly enjoying it immensely. Eventually he told me to stop and we had **, and it was the best ** we've ever had. He was rampant, I've never known him so wound up.
We've agreed that we'll do it again and when I've thought about I realise that I now have the urge to whip him as hard as I can because I want the great ** afterwards. But it seems wrong and selfish to want to hurt my boyfriend in order to enjoy better **, but if he wants to be hurt is it wrong? I feel so confused.
I whip and spank my wife. So refreshing
It's hard to comprehend either masochism or **. How can one want to inflict pain on someone they love. I had a beautiful submissive girlfriend who understood the need to submit although she did not enjoy it.
I'm a submissive husband. After 10 years of marriage I worked up the courage to tell me wife. At first she thought I was being silly and then she thought I was plain sick. She indulged me with some light spanking and whipping.
If you are still doing this, hopefully by now you are relatively lightly whipping his ** and **. If not, you should ask him if you can do that. I also hope by now you are letting him gently whip you on those same areas.
This is a difficult one. Ordinarily whipping someone is a punishment but for him it is a pleasure, so by not doing it you would be denying him pleasure, and also denying yourself the pleasure that he can give you when he is so aroused. So it seems to me that you should just go ahead and do it, and enjoy it in the same way as he enjoys it.
Your boyfriend is a submissive. Go read about it on the internet. Take control and he will enjoy it. I would suggest that you tell him you want to tie him down and then whip him and that you will be whipping him harder and longer than he has imagined and that it will hurt. Then ask his consent and then do it. Whatever do not stop when he screams. Let me tell you as a male submissive myself it's madness but it's my kink. If I were not tied down I would not be able to endure because I am inherently too weak of character. It's so liberating to cry out from the pain and cry from the experience and then when she's done she puts her arms around and hugs me and eventually I stop huffing and crying.
Yes, that’s called CnC (Consensual non-Consent)—look it up and read to understand it. However, before engaging in any such ** play you should have a Safe Word (not Stop because that may just come out in your roleplaying; commonly used is the traffic light code of
Green = I’m great, continue & even intensify.
Yellow = It’s getting intense,
go easier but don’t stop.
RED = STOP EVERYTHING right now,
we’re done.
https://domsubrelationship.com/what-are-safe-words-used-for-in-**-red-yellow-green/
I was delighted to get my wife to spank me and inflict other types of pain (like ** clamps—all discussed & defined prior) as something that arouses me sexually unlike anything else. She is a very kind woman and it took me a long time to convince her that the pain everyone else avoids is what I truly want, so she gradually started doing it to please me—which is ideally what spouses do for each other.