Celibacy in the Catholic Church

I'm ex-priest. I left the church because I witnessed another priest sexually abusing a young boy. In the Catholic church there's no need for such abuse. Having a sexual relationship with many nuns is so easy, as they are desperate to have their sexual frustrations released. Many nuns have begged me, "** me harder!". ** often came in quick succession as I willingly obliged.

I don't think it works. I was in this small cubicle to confess the guilt for my FIRST sucking of my bf's **. I was too **, my bf was kissing and ** me. And instead of allowing me to have **, I have him BJ. The priest I respected ask me to tell him what had happened - I started described the incident. Suddenly I noticed even in the poor light that he took out his ** and started to **. As I about to finish my statement, he ** a huge load. I stopped going to Church after that.

If the Catholic Church is anything like the Christian Church, it's all a hoax, at least in my experience. As a teen, we we're all forced to sign purity pledges. Once I realized me and one other guy we're the only two virgins left, I got the picture lol. Abstinence does not work. Otherwise, all these hypocrite churchy parents wouldn't have all these pregnant 14 year olds running around everywhere

How the ** are we supposed to know that? Why don't you ask some nun's and priest's, how about that? And if you ask one or two of them, don't assume their answers account for the majority of nun's and priest's, everyone are individuals.

When it comes to you it becomes body need , so why can’t a priest or nun enjoy their lives. Do we really have the right to judge anyone like this way when normal person like are have a mentality clouded by **. Though yes there are several boundaries defind by religion but we should go about our own business and let god judge us

I agree. That's why I don't understand why the Catholic Church insists on making them take a vow of chastity. It's no-longer the Middle Ages, it's the 21st century

I can't speak for the priests but my wife and I practice sexual abstinence. It was initially realy really hard and there were lots of failures but now I am able to maintain it. We got me there by letting me ** about once every three months. Two things helped to make it perminant. Firstly the first month was the hardest and so having to relive that over and over was really hard. Then it was actually quite weird and painful not in sharp way but a deep inside way to ** after 3 months so we (she after I told her about this) decided it should be perminant. So now just gone 4 years without **. SO it can be done. We found that pain was a good substitute. She would dig her fingernails into my erect ** and I actually found that to be a good distraction for the desire to **.

Why did you choose to abstain?

Why is a difficult question and tinged with some feelings of strength, weakness, pride and also regret - missing out if that makes any sense. Well we met in the church and both believed in the sanctity of marriage. In my teens I ended up in a cycle of ** then feel weak for not being able to resist. My girlfriend challenged me to not ** or we would not get engaged but I kept failing at that too but she relented.

We got married and tried to manage ** with charting her periods. This was frustrating and unsuccessful and led to tension. It was like every child was an accident rather than planned and wanted. We used to talk about how close we felt when dating and ** was not an option. So we started to just do that. Lots more hugging and kissing and spending time together but knowing no **. We were still doing the NFP thing but ** was always tense with a fear that she would get pregnant again but also she felt an obligation to submit to it and then I would feel weak that we had had to do it. So we started to see if instead of doing it once a month that we would skip a month and then two months and in all this time we were really conscious that if we were not doing ** then we needed to do lots of other intimate stuff. The final thing was that I found that if we went three months when I did ** it was mildly painful plus the first few weeks were always the hardest. I would plead with her that surely we could do it or even orally or anally but she would have none of that. She did however distract me with pain by digging her ** nails into my erect ** and I actually liked that. I guess it was a distraction.

That was made so the money recolected by the priest wouldn't be inherited by their families after their dead, but the pope himself. It was made by the same pope who started the crusades.