My Wife Is Getting Fatter and I Love It
It’s really hard to explain to others, especially in a society built on constant physical activity and judgemental voices. I love my wife, always have and always will. She was always a bit chubby, even when we started dating, and I liked that about her. She was concerned about her weight but not to the point where she obsessed over it. She was happy with herself and loved being 130 Ibs. She ate what she want and enjoyed wherever we went to eat. That’s mostly why I fell in love with her, she didn’t get upset over the little things, and enjoyed the simple pleasures in life.
When she started putting on some weight I couldn’t help but notice, but not for the reasons most people would assume. I actually loved every extra pound on her. The added weight went to all the right places and she honestly couldn’t care less. Yeah she hated having to get new clothes and of course she went through a few diets, but in the end she was comfortable with her newself.
Fast forward and we got married and were dealt with a few family blows along the way. She’s now 200 Ibs and only 5’ 4”. While technically she’s considered obese, her and I aren’t too worried. She still loves herself and I love her. I guess what my concern is, is this normal for a couple to go through? For the man to have more appreciation for a bigger woman? A woman who notices her weight but doesn’t mind being bigger?
Her change hasn’t made things worse but actually improved them. Although we don’t have s** as often as we used to (considering we work so much more now) we enjoy the intimacy much more than ever! I want to know how others feel about this. I’ve read many stories on couples hating the weight gain and threatening divorce and all that, and honestly things like that make me sick and stressed. I will always love my wife, no matter what size she is, but honestly I’m more attracted to her now than ever! And I just want to hear some other stories couples have gone through and if they too have had similar circumstances. Thank you!