Never crushed on

Im a guy and I’m seriously jealous of people who others have crushes on. I’ve had dates and relationships yea..but I had to be the one to go out of my way to initiate them or the girl was looking to date someone (tinder). It must feel nice to know that you just being yourself has unsuspectingly attracted someone to you and as more than just friends. Just tired of having to do all the work ya know? Would be nice for once to hear someone say “hey I have a crush” or “so-and-so has a crush on you and wanted to know if you wanted to grab some coffee”..