My husband and I have been married for almost 20 years, In college we had one, Half assed three way. My room mate and still best friend walked in on us and "Helped out", She walked up behind me on my knees and pulled my hair back, Kissed my neck and played with my b**** then when we had s** she knelt up by my head and played with my b**** and me with hers as she talked dirty to my husband (Then boyfriend) and when he finished it was over and she went to bed, Discussing it was off limits...PERIOD. It never happened again and aside form a few playful, Drunk kisses nothing like it happened ever.
Recently our youngest child moved out and went to college, My husband mentioned the other night about "Spicing" things up a bit and when I asked what he meant he brought up that night. Aside from wondering if at 43 I am too old to start doing stuff like that, I don't think I am overly interested in a replay of that night. When I mentioned maybe with another guy then he gets angry so how is it fair that he can want another girl, A friend of mine yet but when I mention another guy he gets mad.
I am not even sure I would ever do it but we already did a thing with a girl so why not do something different if we did anything.