I am awful..

Been married for almost 10 years and I have never had this happen. I find myself now attracted to another man. Not just a casual gosh he is good looking type attraction but all out I want you sexually attraction. So in order to keep myself under control I rearranged my life to avoid him at all cost and that has worked until now. There is a project I am working on and he is now in charge of it. Boy am I screwed. There is no way I can get out of this with out being confronted by him and being asked a million questions that I don't want to answer. The kicker isn't just that he too is married, no it can't be just that. He is the pastor of marriage ministry at church! I have told my husband about this and he just laughed saying it is nothing to worry about. What I didn't tell him cause this just happened is that this other man confessed to me that he is attracted to me too...
I told him then that we should never be alone and he agreed. The truth is I want to be alone with him.

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  • The one commenter is right. A b****** ISN'T s**.
    You should not be so uptight about a little fling.
    After all, you're not going to run off with the guy, right?
    A little s** outside of marriage is no big deal as long as there are no unplanned pregnancies and everybody knows the situation is only temporary.
    I've been married for over 20 years. I've never had occaison to stray, but my wife has had at least 5 affairs that I know of.
    I don't worry about it, because she always comes back to me.

  • YOUR LUSTFULL UNION HAS MY BLESSING.
    GO AHEAD AND HAVE S** WITH HIM.
    TELL YOUR HUSBAND I SAID IT WAS OKAY.

    God

  • cuckold your husband.

  • Avoid him! Both of you have too much to loose! You, your marriage and reputation within the church. Him his marriage, ministry and if it one of those denominations that don't accept divorce, he could loose his pastoral position. Good move in trying to avoid him. Better move in making sure you two are never alone. As soon as the project is over get away from him. Flee from sin

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