I have been married many years now and looking back on my early years, I wish that my wife had been a little more open to some of my suggestions. But since she was not, I tried to use the voyeur in me to spy on her without her knowing. Her taking showers, I would take pics and some videos without her knowledge. That worked for awhile but she finally found the camera and although she did not get upset, she made sure she did not let it happen again. The problem is for all those pics and movies I took so many years ago, I deleted them and have no copies or computer files to look back on now. So if any of you young married men are lucky enough to take pics of your young wife, find a way to keep them even if she demands you erase them. When you get older, they will be a precious memory of the women you fell in love with and maybe just maybe able to show them to some of your old male friends.