Ok, before I start I’m a 12 year old “girl”, which acutely I kinda want to be a boy...I have already accepted myself as lesbian, but this transgender thing is so confusing! I only wear boy clothes, only like things that typically girls don’t like ya know, boyish things. I’m so confused. My grandmother is very religious, so she doesn’t believe in transgender people. I forgot to mention, she found out I cut and blamed it on my period, yeah, but in all seriousness, I want to cut myself, I want to be a boy. Im just filled with anxiety. I know I could never get a chest binder, knowing my families religious. Personally, I’m a atheist, all my family are christians. My mom’s basically schizophrenic, and had a mental breakdown at the store when I bought two button ups from the men’s section, then she tried to make me buy a blouse, which I personally find blouses to be disgusting. I just don’t know what to do...please can you guys help me?



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  • You are in a difficult age right now and your emotions are all over the place. I am very sad that because of your "Christian" parents you have chosen not to believe in God. Christianity in its pure form is about love, compassion and grace...not a bunch of rules you must follow or else... One thing that you may not realize is that age 12 your brain is still developing and won't be fully developed until around 21, so you do not want to make any life altering decisions now. You want to be a boy...why. As a girl you can do almost all the things guys can do. So dont dress up in girly things. There is a reason that s** with minors is against the law...they cant think of all the consequences a sexual relationship might bring like becoming pregnant or getting STDs. Wait till at least 18 before attempting transgender surgery. Imagine the pain you might feel if you changed into a male now and then in your 20's you find realize that you really want to be female and raise a family but cant, because you made this decision to early in your life.

  • I feel for you. F***** up parents. My family is f***** too. My wife is a total control freak. I just do what she says even though she is abusing our daughter by controlling every aspect of her life including choosing what she is to wear.

  • Email me.

  • We'll be in touch soon. Sit tight.


  • Do you like boys or girls?

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