Prevent a pervert.
A 25 year old man I interviewed was in prison for multiple rapes on older women. While committing these acts, he would call them, ‘mother’ and make them call him ‘son’ while removing their clothes and make them ask him to touch them and finally he would make them ask him to have s** with them.
His tormented life started as sneaking and window peeping at his mother, then throughout the neighborhood.
When asked how his life might have been influenced for the better he told me; if his mother had spent some alone time with him when he was a teenager, letting him look and touch and ask questions, he wouldn’t have let his curiosity get out of hand.
His sisters were promiscuous and he said he saw them naked and could have had s** with them many times, but it was his mother that must have been hiding the best from him. It was her he needed to know and learn from.
When discussing this with a colleague, he told me his own mother came to his room when he turned 13. She had just bathed and was only wearing a towel. She sat on the bed with him and told him he needed to learn about a woman’s body now and that she would always allow him to look, touch, and ask questions. She didn’t want him preoccupied while in school wondering about other girls or teachers instead of learning.
She stood with her back to him and removed the towel. He looked and touched until he was comfortable. She turned sideways and then full front, repeating the process.
She was very loving and gave him a long hug telling him to come to her any time for any reason. And he knew exactly what she meant.
So, I asked, “did you?”
With a big smile and a laugh, he said, “h*** yes I did. Nearly every day for the next five years. And every chance I got after I left home”.
He graduated from Harvard.
Hopefully this advice will help many young men, and prevent them from becoming window peepers in the neighborhood and ending up in trouble with the law.