I know its easier said than done to make big changes but try to do a small thing everyday that you haven't done before or for a long time. Cheer up, you will be loved.
First, don't overthink it. Second, don't isolate yourself. None of this will be immediate so don't rush to the idea of a full-blown relationship. Savor friendships, dates, community activities, etc. A million little activities and conversations lead the way to a relationship with real potential.
It won't be easy, bit you need to make yourself get out and make some friends. Go to church. Join a club. Participate in an exercise class. Volunteer at a school, hospital, library, or nursing/rehab facility, or an event(s)or festival(s) in your area. Keep busy in neighborhood activities. Become active in a political organization. Work for cancer support groups. Viisit a hospice facility. Be creative. Get busy. Stay busy. It won't happen overnight, but the more people you're around, even if it's only for short periods of time, the less often you'll feel lonely.
I wish you only the best.
Thank you for your wishes
Why are you so sad
I’ve been divorced for a year and a half after 25 years of marriage. I realize that it was a bad marriage and needed to end but at 55 years old I’m starting over. I’m ready to find a woman to hopefully spend the next 25 plus years with but it’s so hard to meet people. I dated a beautiful woman for only a month and fell completely in love with her, but we are not seeing each other any longer, and I’m crushed and heartbroken. I’m so lonely and wish she was into me like I am her so bad! It hurts so much I’ve been crying almost every day. It’s just so painful
I'm sorry you're dealing with so much sorrow and difficulty and heartbreak. Keep %using to meet new people, in as many places as you can. You seem to genuinely care about other people, and that will eventually be found appealing by the type of person you want and need. Be well, friend.
Thank you for the kind words. I’m just having such a hard time getting her out of my mind. The short time that things were good between us was exactly what I’m craving, and I feel like I had her on the line and she got away. Probably going to delete FB because I keep checking up on her and I love everything she posts.... I’m positive I could be happy with her for the rest of my life 💔💔
She's not coming back, so you have to delete all her files in your mind and make new files. Please resist all inclinations to think of her or return to the failed relationship. The thoughts of her are harming you.
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I know its easier said than done to make big changes but try to do a small thing everyday that you haven't done before or for a long time. Cheer up, you will be loved.
First, don't overthink it. Second, don't isolate yourself. None of this will be immediate so don't rush to the idea of a full-blown relationship. Savor friendships, dates, community activities, etc. A million little activities and conversations lead the way to a relationship with real potential.
It won't be easy, bit you need to make yourself get out and make some friends. Go to church. Join a club. Participate in an exercise class. Volunteer at a school, hospital, library, or nursing/rehab facility, or an event(s)or festival(s) in your area. Keep busy in neighborhood activities. Become active in a political organization. Work for cancer support groups. Viisit a hospice facility. Be creative. Get busy. Stay busy. It won't happen overnight, but the more people you're around, even if it's only for short periods of time, the less often you'll feel lonely.
I wish you only the best.
Thank you for your wishes
Why are you so sad
I’ve been divorced for a year and a half after 25 years of marriage. I realize that it was a bad marriage and needed to end but at 55 years old I’m starting over. I’m ready to find a woman to hopefully spend the next 25 plus years with but it’s so hard to meet people. I dated a beautiful woman for only a month and fell completely in love with her, but we are not seeing each other any longer, and I’m crushed and heartbroken. I’m so lonely and wish she was into me like I am her so bad! It hurts so much I’ve been crying almost every day. It’s just so painful
I'm sorry you're dealing with so much sorrow and difficulty and heartbreak. Keep %using to meet new people, in as many places as you can. You seem to genuinely care about other people, and that will eventually be found appealing by the type of person you want and need. Be well, friend.
Thank you for the kind words. I’m just having such a hard time getting her out of my mind. The short time that things were good between us was exactly what I’m craving, and I feel like I had her on the line and she got away. Probably going to delete FB because I keep checking up on her and I love everything she posts.... I’m positive I could be happy with her for the rest of my life 💔💔
She's not coming back, so you have to delete all her files in your mind and make new files. Please resist all inclinations to think of her or return to the failed relationship. The thoughts of her are harming you.