She needs guidance
I work at a private highschool as a counsellor. Every week I have a particularly dysfunctional girl (12yrs) who has to report to me to have a behavior sheet signed. She only can get it signed if no incidents of truancy or disrespect have occurred.
She is a superbly attractive little girl but her manner is rough and rude.
About 3 weeks ago she got penalties on her behavior card ...again. She was so mad that she had got caught (truancy) but not even a little apologetic.
When she walked in two weeks ago the first thing she said was "did you get my presents." I had no idea and she said check your phone. There were multiple (just received) messages of her sitting in my office fingering herself and photos of her v*****. I was so shocked. She said you have to sign my card every week or I will tell everyone you molested me.
She is an evil evil child - very manipulative. I found out her father and mother are very renowned people and very absent which explains her acting up.
I spent a week unable to function, very angry and depressed. I knew if I reported this or she did it wouldn't matter - that would be life over for me. End of my career the lot.
This week she had the smug look of triumph on her face when she came for the meeting. I told her I won't be signing her card and I have a meeting booked with both her parents.
She had a total meltdown. So I relented and opted for a bj instead. I have crossed a line and will cross it again. Apparently she isnt a virgin but we will see next week. I feel a lot safer she is a lot more scared of her parents and now every week she will get a good behavior report so it works out for everyone.