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Trapped and sad
I want to get out of my relationship but I know there is a 99% I won't find anything better. To leave now would be idiotic, our lives are so wrapped up at this point. He loves me so much and would do anything for me. It breaks my heart. But I don't love him. I don't even know if I can love anyone? I feel so passive all the time and I wish I didnt. I fell no desire. There are so many things that are wrong. I don't even know if I want kids, he wants kids and assumes I'll have a change of heart.
I want to move. Far away. I want to leave the country. and live a happy life. I hate my life here. I'm so trapped every day, and I know I could do what I wanted if I just had the guts to tell him I was leaving.
Just imagine your life if you don't leave. More anxiety and unhappiness.
This is the opposite side of my unwanted confession. I’m in a relationship where my wife doesn’t seem to want me despite everything I do for her. Trust me, maybe he’s hoping you’ll do it so it’ll spare him the trouble. All I know is you need to be happy, or he will never be. If you keep putting it off, you’re just prolonging the inevitable for both you, and denying both of you try happiness.
Follow your heart. Don't have kids to fix a relationship it won't work and is selfish- think of kids.
Just be honest with yourself and without kids leave how ever you have to, just go follow your heart
Are people FINALLY starting to realize making a baby to solve problems is a really, really stupid move?? If I had any faith in humanity left, that might have restored it a little