How do you get it started? I am afraid of rejection

Let's have s** so you can find out!
What do you hope my gender is? Would it matter? ;-)

Ask yourself, does it really what matter what sexuality you have? Just enjoy yourself and life. Don't put a label on yourself. Who cares?

Agreed. She just shouldn’t care. Like whomever you want to like.

But then how will she get lots and lots of attention for some r3tard3d reason?

The only way to find out is to experiment