I know she cheats

I know my wife cheats on me. Ive never tried to stop her. H*** I guess it's my fault. When we first got married i talked her into a threesome with a friend of mine. I guess im strange because it doesn't bother me. She's never denied sleeping around. Ive watched her getting ready to go out. She makes herself look hot. She has a very nice round ass big t*** 38dd. Ive seen her out with guys. Ive followed her to the club just to see for myself how she is with other men. Funny how i don't get jealous about this. Don't get me wrong we have a good s** life. Im not a wimpy guy by any means. And it's not about the size of my p**** im 7 1/2 cut and a good 6 inches around. I guess I created a monster in her. I love her with all my heart and i know that she loves me. We talked about it a few times and she's told me that she's sorry. But she keeps going out and finding guys. In kinda stuck in a one way open marriage . That i started. She may go out and sleep around but she always comes home to me so I guess I can't complain. Thanks for listening i have no one i can talk to so i posted it on here.

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  • My wife came back from her official tour and she had to mail some documents or something I am not sure, her laptop was on and her email was open when I entered her Room which she use for home office purpose. I had just made a coffee ( I am jobless and retired to home making) and was bringing the coffee tray to her room and saw she just entering the bathroom and closing the door. So as I turned to keep the coffee on her table, I saw her laptop on and an email just popped up. It simply stated 'Hi honey Gd Morning. See the attachment. Our memoir of last night. Enjoy. Have a good day'. Curiosity gave way and I opened the attachment which was a video of her lying naked with her boss and she was earnestly requesting not to take video. Though I knew there may have some thing like that going on, this was the hard proof. Without wasting time I got it copied to my phone and made the message unread. Though there was no action of sexual thing in the video, both were naked lying on bed resting after s**. I later was feeling a thrill and decided to upload the same on the Internet for the public to enjoy. Still viewing that video and seeing the number of hits I masturbates when my wife is at office. At times whenever I get a chance I would scan her laptops and even belongings to get hold of any such evidence but have not been successful so far.

  • My wife and I got together abs for the first 8 years have had gone to many swinger parties and hook ups... actually some of our longest and best friends were hook ups .. any way we are still open but haven't done it in years now. It seems we are very happy with each other.. lol anyway good luck and adore her as she is. ;)

  • Having a threesome and cheating are two different things. It's not your fault. You got married and as consenting adults you BOTH agreed to a threesome. Did you agree to an open marriage? Wondering if she would change her tune if you actually started seeing other women. You have spoken to her that you no longer want an open marriage so she continues and there are no consequences ie.. divorce. Women and men go outside their marriage for a lot of reasons and it may have nothing to do with the size of your p****. But then again, there are people who don't want to be in monogamous relationships. Has she cheated before?

    Get into counseling if you want to save your marriage. You don't have to justify how you are feeling. However, in the end you may be looking at broken marriage. One thing I totally don't get is how she's meeting anyone when people are supposed to be wearing masks and staying 6 feet apart? Not to mention any other STDs she can get.

    The simple truth is nothing changes unless you do something. So if she continues to cheat and you don't say that's not what you want, this will be your life. You either have to leave this situation or make an attempt to change the situation. Have you asked her what would it take for her to stop seeing these other men? And you should talk with someone about it. I don't think you are alone, I'm sure there are others in the same situation.

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