Idiot

What the h*** came over me, My friend and I are in college, We went out for the night and got way trashed, We came home and slept in the same bed.
I don't know why I did it but I got up and went to the bathroom and when I came back she was sprawled out on the bed and I don't know...I just...Went for it, I pulled her underwear aside and licked her. I don't understand, I am straight, always been straight, I am still straight but she just laid there and didn't give me any indication of anything until she grabbed my head, Sat up and looked down at me and as she was coming she said "Oh god, Oh god, No, Why are you, Oh god" and clenched her thighs, came and then pushed me away, Rolled away from me and stood up.
She caused a big scene and kicked me out of her room so now our other two room mates know, they don't know she was unwilling but that she kicked me out after they heard her come and now she won't talk to me, I hate everything in my life right now.

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  • You obviously crossed a line that should have never been crossed. But, it happened. The alcohol you had was probably a significant contributing factor. Don't get hung up on the labels (gay, straight, bi), they don't always work. Since she's talking to you again, emphasize that you wished it never happened, you are very sorry, and it will not happen again. You may want to add something about the alcohol reducing your inhibitions and impacting your ability to control your impulses.

    Good luck!

  • Consent is so important

  • I had a different but similar experience, A VERY close friend "Took advantage" after a night of drinking too much, I was awake but not fully aware, She pushed, I said no, She pushed more and it happened, I was very upset the next day and that was a thing I had specifically planned on NOT doing. We did recover...Eventually and are still to this day, 20 years later the absolute closest of any of our friends. It is possible to come back from it.

  • No, Very obviously all comments from men, She was not awake and didn't wake up until the o*****, We are not gay, Either of us. I don't know what came over me and I do not want her to reciprocate, I just want it to have never happened. I have appologized and she is talking to me again but our relationship is obviously strained and I don't think it will ever be the same.

  • True friends forgive. out of character behavior surprised you-talk to your friend and roommates and explain not justify what had happened. i would like it myself and even thank you with a reciprocal

  • Good advice

  • Too bad .. but you can always apologize to her and say that you find her attractive and that you love oral too. If she had o***** earlier at that time she should have the reason to turn to you again.

  • I think the problem may that you took advantage while she was asleep. Ask her to meet you in a neutral place and see if you can work something out? She may be embarrassed? Do you think she was awake during the oral s**?

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