No longer want to be married

I have been married now for a year and 2 months. I have come to grips that sometimes some couples don’t work out no matter how hard you try. I was accused of hiding things from her on my phone, but when she hacked into my Instagram and other social media accounts and found nothing. She was so upset that she resulted in cutting herself about it... I’m lost and confused about this whole thing. She said I didn’t give up anything for her which is a lie.. I left my family and friends to move halfway across the country, to a place where I know absolutely no one. She tried to limit how much time I spoken with my family and my mom and sister.... and in the process my mom passed away. She should be just thrilled about the one person that begged me not to go is no longer there in my life. When we went back to attend my moms service, you made it about you and if any of my x gf came. To make sure I introduce you to them as my wife. You were supposed to be there for me in my time of grief... and you made it all about you. I should have just sent your ass back home and sent for my things. And now recently... i looked up my old high school video of friends I went to school with. She flipped out on me and tells me I have no business looking at old classmates and if I go to a zoom class reunion I’m disrespecting you??? Honestly what the f***??? I’m a good man and despite everything I’ve been through, being with you has been a punishment enough. You and your lying daughter can go and find another sucker. I’m going to continue with my choice to keep a smile on my face, save my money and when the time is right I’m out. Oh and BTW during your first marriage I noticed you gave your x husband when married a nice ring... one from a jewelry store in town...I guess I’m s*** to you for giving me 4 to 5 different rings from wish that cost no more than 1.00 and turned my finger green. I’m tired I’m angry hurt etc.. I deserve better and I will find it out there.

Feb 8

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  • So you lasted a whopping 14 months on a boy that's really trying isn't it I've been with my wife for 6 years and it sounds like exactly the same as yours I've been accused assumed cheating cheated on everything and I still stayed but you're f****** problem marriage is forever

  • This does not sound healthy at all.
    So why do you stay????
    She sounds like she is controlling and selfish.
    So start over with some one that cares.

  • Well for one thing you made a commitment now he has to stick to it that's what's wrong with the f****** the whole world you marry someone in 3 weeks later you're like ah I don't like you very much I'm going to go f*** somebody else you f****** quitters

  • Get out. I had similar issues but drug out my marriage for 6 years because I came from a background where you find a way to make marriage work. In the end I became a person I didn't like due to all the anger and spite.

  • Go now! Why wait?

  • The thing is I actually spoke to her about going to therapy. She feels it’s a waste of time, I strongly disagree on that. I personally have benefited from therapy and writing down my feelings and thoughts.

  • I hear you brother at least it sounds like your getting out much faster then me it's been 3 grulling years of marriage. And 2 before that and I went to prison for the b****.and she's so ungrateful and she the abusive one one me. See ladies you can be abusive same as men. Only differance is I don't stoop to her level and hit back.

  • I'm a cynic, try as I might to resist that urge. So, in my life, I've found little reason for confidence in therapy or counselling in general. but intellectually, I recognize it sometimes can be beneficial, and I think there's a place for it in your situation. So, before you take a giant step --- which I sense you do not really want to take --- please go to a psychologist or counsellor with your wife and see if you can find a path forward that the two of you can take together. It may not work but I think you'll like yourself better if you seek professional direction for input that you could not (or at least did not) generate on your o wn. Please. Try. Don't be like me.

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