Regret being a mother..

I just had my newborn son. I always wanted to be a mom and get married and have a real family. My partner left me while being 9 months pregnant after cheating on me. I almost died giving birth in the hospital. being a single mother had made me feel differently. I wish I never had a baby. The father is selfish and still insist on telling me he loves me. If I could go back and change it I would have never dated him and I would have never allowed myself to get pregnant. Please tell me this gets easier..I need to hear something good right now.

Mar 12

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  • It shall come to pass

  • You could be an amazing mother. It's hard but it's rewarding in the end. I wish you all the best.

  • Divorce him with huge alimony amount

  • There are no guarantees. While I hope it gets better for you, I've been a father for over a year now and still regret it. And that's with the wife and I still being together.

  • It does, but it will always be difficult. Still worth it though

  • He never deserved you and the beautiful angel. Therefore, it's but natural that he left you for some tramp. Your literal rebirth during labour was a godesend. Difficult as life may be, it has a message. Rise like a Phoenix. Don't even communicate with this twerp. Let his shadow nev er fall on your angel.
    Please don't be harsh on yourself and the baby. I am sure you have something to look forward to, in terms of a job or profession. Work hard and you will succeed. Then you will reap the benefits of being a good human and a good mom.
    Now, do't look for support for the sake of it. Don't make a maistake of getting into an affair or marriage even for the little angel. There will be many wolves waiting to sexploit you. Choose your husband--I am specifiacally avoiding the term partner--carefully and it doesn't matter if you don't find one at all.
    All is well,rest assured as this was how it was to be.

    Wish you all the happiness and bounty. Never forget the mask and the vaccination,though.

  • Your little angel came in this world with his fate. Shower him lots of love, his smile will help to forget past. Focus on baby, everything will be ok with time.

    You have only one life to live, don't spoil your present & future for the past. Every day is a new day.

    Never look back unless you are planning to go that way.

    Have a wonderful time ahead. God bless you and baby.

  • Spoil the kid.

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