He forced himself on me

I'm the only child and it was nice having my cousin act like a big brother making sure no one gave me trouble,I did have a bf and that didn't last long when my cousin hit him for sleeping with me and through the lockdowns we chatted everyday, coming to the end of the last one he got me to send him a picture and he said i looked fit and kept asking for one with me in my pink bikini,I gave in thinking it's no harm,he came round the day before with some vodka and he got me to put my bikini on to show him i was a little drunk and done it and he pulled the string and i showed myself to him and ran upstairs embarrassed,he came up saying how sorry he was and how he couldn't help it as i was fit,we kissed and ended up on the bed fooling around and i let him have s** with me but then asked him to stop at least 5 times but he didn't listen,I told him afterwards and all he said was he didn't hear me and now i think im pregnant, don't no how to deal with it.

Apr 3, 2021

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  • I'm sorry you had such a horrible experience. If it helps, pretty much no guy can stop in the middle, on queue. The female decides if and when the act will commence. But from a practical standpoint, no female gains protection from the belief that if she says, 'STOP', that will actually happen!

    A female looks at it from her perspective, that's she can easily stop. But evolution has put in the male an overwhelming drive to complete his natural function, as is required for the continuation of the human race! If it wasn't for the male's powerful drive to complete the act, humans would have died out long ago. No one would be alive now!

    So, you were violated because of that masculine drive toward completion--something most women write off as simply a selfish desire for sensual climax--but you also exist because of it, along with every other female living in the world now! If the man could just stop whenever he felt like it, no woman would ever have gotten pregnant!

    It's like the sun. All life depends on it. Without it no life would exist on earth, because it would be -273 degrees 24/7, and nothing can live in that. But it also causes skin cancer! You don't blame the sun for skin cancer! So, don't blame the male for the masculine biology he had no say in!

    It's time females face reality! If a girl asks a guy to sop after he's started, he can't! The male determines when the act will end! Each participant gets to determine one thing. The female determines if and when the act will begin. The male determines when it will end. That's just the way reproductive biology is! And thanks to it, we are all here today!

  • What he did to you was predatory. He took advantage of you. Knowing you feel alone, as you’ve stated you’re an only child with him “as your big brother,” and knowing you deemed him close in relationship & trusted him. You need to fire him from that job bc he blew it by betraying your trust & overstepping a physical boundary that should have been maintained due to your familial relationship and more importantly when you told him NO. Why did your cousin drive your boyfriend away? Did your boyfriend harm you, was sending him away something you wanted him to do, or was your cousin just isolating you so he could pursue you himself?
    Don’t allow any more alone time with that guy and feel free to create a distance with him if you need to for safety and peace sake. If he harasses or intimidates you, you already know you’re being manipulated by someone toxic & controlling who is playing on your emotions about feeling alone or like an only child, and likely believes you won’t turn to anyone for help or advice on the matter. Is it true you have no support system? Please don’t let him convince you that you can’t create one in or outside the family that doesn’t include him. Anyone can can. Are new friends or find an advocate, even if they hire a therapist (or fine one for free) online to share the history with and to be able to check in with should you ever need advice or a witness/advocate, should things get bad enough to involve the cops.
    And who is the troll responding w/all the foul and aggressive comments on this page? Is that the culprit? If so, you definitely need to x him from your life & get some help if needed. If he approaches you that way, he’s definitely a maniac seeking to control & take advantage of you. By no means: don’t give a guy like that control over your peace of mind or your life.

  • Come here I will drill you 100 times more till you die and don't come back here

  • He raped you. Making the assumption you can even consent age wise, he got you drunk, and then ignored you five times when you told him to stop. It doesn't get a whole lot clearer than that.

  • It's not rape if the guy is already inside her when she says no! If she waits that long, she has to let him finish! No jury is going to agree that a girl can just tease a guy any amount, and then she says no! The guy has every right to finish! That may not be what the law technically reads. But it is definitely what most normal people believe!

    If the girl waits until the guy is inside her to say, 'no', it's her fault! She got what she was asking for! Any female who permits herself privacy with a male she is notnrelated to has already given consent just by being alone with the guy!

    She wanted it! Now she's looking to blame the guy, because she's pregnant! It's her fault! I hope she's ready to become a mommy, because that's what's best for every female!

    The more kids she has the earlier in life, the less likely she is to rebel against masculine authority, which every female must obey after she has s** with any guy, as if to Almighty God!

    If she rebels, she cements herself in opposition to her creator, and her life will become one of God's punishment to the rebellious female: lonlieness, enslavement, and growing old alone, because no man wants a girl with some
    other guy's kids, because she's already had some other guy inside her reproductive tract!

    Females should consider that fact before having s** for the first time! She then belongs to the man, and he has lifelong, exclusive rights to her reproductive tract! That's just the way it is! No one is required to like it! That's the way it always will be, because the girl once soiled by one guy is useless to any other!

    Unless the guy is willing to accept used merchandise as a wife, which he might if he's an overweight, balding alcoholic with butt-cleavage.

  • F*** off you yank c*** from what ive been reading im guessing you are the one that's sick liking young children,they will love you in prison f****** perv

  • So because it's not written the way you like it you call it fake I know women who have been abused and they don't show any mental problems,men and women deal with it differently, how about giving good advice and not coming on to attack everyone, you might find you could help instead of just making yourself feel better.

  • Fuckyou faker You know why you wrote this SickFUCK

  • I don’t believe that this happens but If it did you deserved it anyway for being a stupid w****

  • Who is this person calling everyone fake?? this stuff do happen

  • I’m so sorry that happened to you. Please call the police and stay safe.

  • Oh cut the fake incestCRAP idiot!

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