Is this a fetish/kink or something to do with my mental health?

So i’m a woman on 23 and have some dreams about being hugged and comforted by any of my crushes(which is mostly fictional characters, cause i’m aromantic asexual). Especially if i had a bad day, being yelled at, dramatic moments, fights and if someone had hit on me. I’ve had those dreams since i was a child and especially when i was mentally abused by my classmate(it wasn’t a relationship but more like a friendship, i’ve never been in a relationship, had my first kiss, dated or had s** with anyone before. I’m still a virgin) i saw my fantasies as something i could escape from the reality.

I should also add that i have autism, are en empath/HSP so i don’t know if it has anything to do with this. Am i the only one who has this fetish or whatever it really is?

May 28, 2021

Related Posts


  • newest
  • most popular
  • oldest
  • TLDR: You can have a very close freindshp where you become life partners and cuddle and things, and it doesnt have to be romantic, called a Q**** Platonic Relationship.

    Ok i might be a bit late here, but most people need companionship. A lot of Aromantic people find themselves in a Q**** Platonic Relationship(QPR). In a QPR, you can be as intimate as any romantic relationship but without the romantic attraction. People in QPRs often do things like get married(for the legal benefits) and sleep in the same bed, buying a house together and things. Some Aro but not asexual people have s** with their partner in a QPR, but others don't.

  • It is normal and my wife and I do it every night. And I would not have it any other way.
    I reach out and touch her lots of time.

  • First off, not a fetish. Fetishes are sexual and you are asexual, which is the opposite. Second, craving basic human compassion (cuddling) in a non-sexual way is about as normal as it gets. If you aren't connecting to people sexually yet still have desires to connect, it only makes sense that's what you desire. Old school psych research shows that many animals, especially apes, require physical human contact for basic sanity and health.

  • Shut up you autistic bich

Account Login
Is this post inapropriate?
Reason for reporting this post
Report this comment
Reason for reporting this comment
Delete this post?