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Unrequited love
I am 22 years old female. I live in a developing country, so homophobia is pretty much a given. It’s quite hard for me to find a girl for a committed relationship. Only one night stands in a gay club.
So one day my friend confessed her love to me, and now I don’t know what to do.
But if it was just that, I wouldn’t be writing this here. I was in a dark place then, and used her for my sexual needs, but I do not share the same feelings with her. I don’t know how to confront someone about my lack of feelings, because it never happened to me before. I don’t want to hurt her feelings but at the same i avoid her like crazy. What should I do? She’s in my friend group, so it is extremely awkward and I hate it.
Darling, if she provides you the woman loving you need why ruin it.
Use her for your sexual needs
There is really no such thing as an "easy letdown". Most people who try to gently reject just end up giving them false hope for the future and making it way worse. Just be honest and straightforward without being cruel. Tell her you don't feel the same way.