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I guess I wasn't good enough.
Okay, so I was dating a guy. I fell completely head over heels for him. We had so much fun together, and I honestly thought he was the one. Almost a year into our relationship, he abruptly tells me he needs a break. He wouldn't talk to me, or even look at me. Later I come to find out, he was cheating on me. It was heartbreaking to find out he was so dishonest, and I couldn't understand what had went wrong to make him cheat. A week later, I see on his myspace, "newsflash: im gay". I guess the two people he was cheating on me with were guys. It's been almost a year, and I still cry over him. I don't understand what I did wrong.
You did nothing wrong. It's all on him. He's gay, and that's his problem. (No offence in this.)
what you did wrong was :
YOU'RE NOT A MAN.
THEREFORE HES not ATTRACTED TO YOU!
GET OVER IT
^SHAMING DISRESPECT ALERT!^
don't listen to that last poster.
You just had bad luck...he couldn't help his feelings, and you should be happy for him, because he's no longer living a lie. That doesn't mean what he did to you was OK though, cheating is cheating...maybe he just couldn't find a way to tell you without hurting you?
I hope life gets better,
C