Been in the closet about these things
I've been divorced for 11 years and this year I retired, or really they retired me. I moved to a be close to my kid but she is too busy so I see them occasionally. I moved into a not so rundown trailer park because the rent is cheap. I met a man named Joe, retired Navy man who enjoys his way around other men. He came onto me and I gave into him and spent the afternoon in his trailer doing what men do who like being with men. In these situations I have always played the bottom role.
Joe is dominant both sexually and personality wise. If it wasn't that my kid lives nearby, in the same community, I would enjoy the action. It's been my secret, partly to blame for getting divorced. But I told Joe to cool it. I'm thinking of moving again this time to Tampa, far away, where I can enjoy these activities with less stress. If my kid ever found out her old man is a ** sucker and ** for a man she would never talk to me again. She's pretty closed minded about these things.
Do whatever you like to do and do it for yourself.