I don't make an issue out of my husband having girlfriends
Ping pong on the deck. I was beating him pretty easily and then I did the girl thing, I backed off and let him win. We were 14 years old, school friends but not going together. He asked me why I backed off and I went silent, I couldn't tell him but he knew I let him. He then asked me what I would do if he was forcing me to have s**. I sat silent, he knew that I knew I would let him. He pushed and I gave in and I lost my virginity that afternoon.
He did marry me, but not until after college. He had several girlfriends to have s** with. He kept me from having s** again until I was married. I don't challenge him, I can't. Even about his girlfriends. I like some but not others. I guess I'd be worried if he didn't just have them for s**.