i am a 21 year old mother and i just

We all have a conscience for a reason and you know your conscience is telling you that divorcing him was not the answer. Do not pursue a new relationship. Try your best with the first one. Marriage is a holy covenant made in front of God who is the ONE you seek thru bad times. Do the right thing hun. there's still achance for you to make it right.

Stop being so codependent! Work on yourself, and worry about making your child's life better! Stop being a selfish lonely sap, and quit trying to rebound to another relationship! Get a life!

hey you will always love your frist love but there will come a time when you are no longer in love with that person but you will always love them thats just a part of true love you will move on and find someone who is right for you and love them it wont be the same thou you love everybody differently

No, I don't believe feelings are ever wrong. It's what you decide to do with those feelings that count. I believe you when you say that your daughter comes first in your life; you hang on to that. Our children learn from us and pass it down to their children. But maybe before you jump into a new relationship it might be wise to discover yourself first. You are still very young, and don't take that wrong, maybe I can get away with saying that because I have seen a lot of life. I understand that you miss having that very close relationship, but it didn't work out, and you might want to take the time to think about why. Because I know you don't want to travel that very painful road again. I think that you are a perceptive young woman to ask yourself these questions, so I believe that you have what it takes to give it all more thought and learn and move on from this point into a brighter world for yourself and your daughter.

i'm not going to jump into a relationship unless i know for sure that they are good enough for my daughter. she comes first in my life. i just feel like i need someone there in that way. i was just curious if i should feel wrong for wanting to date so soon?

Are you really seeking a relationship? Or are you just lonely? You can fill the void without having to find a significant other right now. Ignore comment writer #4, an obvious cold hearted idiot who doesn't realize that a lot of people blog and bulletin without capitals and whatnot.

You should learn how to write before putting your stupid self in front of the world. "I" is always capitolized. The first word of a sentence is as well. Stay with the jerkl...you deserve each other.

Nothing wrong to love somebody but make sure your kid does not suffer because of this.Praveen

make sure you are making the right decision because your kid growing up between homes could really ** him/her up

take some time for yourself!!