NEVER Say This to a Guy

I'm 22 years old. Male. Bisexual. Here's what I have to say.

If you like a guy, and want to be in a relationship with a guy, here is some advise. NEVER say "Do you love me?"

As a guy, I can assure you that putting us on the spot like that almost never ends well. It will result in a "No," because we don't know what else to say. Or a "Yes," even though we don't like you at all.

There may be that one exception where a guy says yes in a genuine way. You might ask this question to the perfect guy, get married, and have some perfect babies. Raise them in a perfect house, in a perfect tight-laced community. But that is a once in a billion chance.

From my personal experiences, 9/10 times you will push a guy away if you ask "Do you love me?". He'll probably think you are weird or one of those psychotic hoes, and never talk to you again. Or something worse will happen. He will feel pressured into saying yes, you'll become a couple, and then he'll cheat on you because he is too much of a p**** to tell you how he REALLY feels.

Take my advise, ladies and gentlemen. Don't put a guy on the spot. If he really likes you, you don't have to ask. If you really like him, you wouldn't ask.

Some Bi Dude in Gettysburg, PA.

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  • Sounds more like you are afraid to love and be loved. That question comes up because your partner wants something real. So they ask you that to see if you are serious about a life together or are they wasting their time with you.

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