I'm in love.

I am totally infatuated. He's the greatest conversation, he thinks I'm funny and beautiful, he's smart and cultured, we have the same taste in film and music. He's got a classically handsome face that I could look at forever and he makes me feel so loved, I just want to be around him all the time.
But I can't tell him. Mainly because I've kept up this coy demeanour that I don't dare break down because I haven't got a clue how to tell people things like this. We have such a precious and special friendship that I don't want to jeopardise it. I have never felt like this about anybody and it's consuming me and physically hurting me. However, it isn't just as simple as telling him how I feel and it all working out anyway, because on top of the fear of telling him the truth, we're both going our seperate ways in life. I'm going to lose him forever.

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  • ^agreed. if he has stayed by your side through this indecision then his feelings are obviously the same. you can't base your decisions now on a future that hasn't come yet. whatever was meant for you will never pass you by. if his feelings are only that of friendship, then there is no loss by making your feelings be known because you each will be going separate ways and the friendship will naturally disintegrate. if the feelings are mutual then you have everything to gain. the \\"one\\" is called the one because they only come along once. this may be your only chance. there is nothing as easy as telling someone the truth. next time you see him just say i have something i want to tell you later. even if there are others around, this sets it up so you don't just have to blurt it out. it will give you time to mentally prepare what you want to say and make it so you can't back out now. then when you feel comfortable, just let it out. it will flow out naturally. i only wish i would have followed my own advice when i found that one for me :(
    good luck!

  • Perhaps if you make your true feelings known to him, you will not have to go your separate ways, but one way instead.

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