My best friend ws having ** outside of mariage
He was married to a very attractive woman with whom he had two children. For reasons of his own he was having regular ** with a woman not half as good looing as his wife.
I didn't like the woman he was having the affair with. She was off putting to me because I just flat didn't like her. Instincts told me she was nothing but trouble.
I told him how I felt about this woman but he continued with the affair. His wife found out and divorced him. The woman he was having ** with dumped him soon after. I believe that destroying marriages was her goal in life and having achieved that she moved on to some other poor man.
You should get in with the ex wife. She sounds nice.