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Rescuing a friend but loosing a wife
I am Asian and I work in the UK. Me and my friend were sent to here to work on a project for our employer. We were given an assistant (female) to help us with many administrative tasks related to our job. We both fell in love with her and we both proposed and she chose me.
I got married and my friend was my best man. It was all good for a time but then I started to note my friend getting angry for no apparent reason and not willing to have a beer with me after work hours. I confronted him asking what that was about. He apologized and explained that he cannot forget my wife. He is still in love with her. This is a major problem because we spend weekends together and he sometimes sleeps in our house (his apartment is over one hour drive away).
I talked to my wife about this asking her if we should stop seeing him on weekends. My wife told me to do as I like - she says he always behaves well and there is no problem as far as she is concerned. I found this she was avoiding then giving me a yes no answer. I asked about her feelings to him. She said she likes him and could marry him but she married me and she is happy with me. But now yes she likes him too.
I thought about this for a long time and decided to try to keep my friendship and keep my marriage too. I offered to my wife she can be close friends with him and I told him he can meet my wife but only when I am in our hose. No cheating, secret dates and other such uncivilized tricks.
Told my wife and she said she accepts the situation and she would try to be a good wife to me and a good friend to him.
At first our new situation was awkward but it quickly grew on us. We worked then we went home, then we went out to eat. Back home we first took turns with each of us having 3 nights with her each week. But then we found that the noises made sleep for one of us unbearable and we decided to sleep together. So it ended with my wife having two lovers most of the nights. She seemed quite happy with that too.
We looked up some Internet advice and we tried new things that are not possible in a monogamous relation. My wife liked some and rejected others. But she did like many of these 2 in one and 1 in each experiences. She learned to allow us finish deep in her throat too and to swallow. Our bed life became very wild and perverse for a time and I was happy with that.
Now my wife got pregnant and she made a test and it turned out my friend is the father. I proposed we let this be and we raise the baby with financial and paternal friend from my friend. But my wife refuses this. She wants the biological father to be the only one to help her at the child.
I think I made a mistake. I saved my friendship but I lost my wife. I never expected that. I am very disappointed.
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