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Was I molested?
My sister is over 5 years older than me and when we visited our grandparents they always had us sleep together. When I was about 8 she pulled me on top of her putting her hand on my but and grinding herself with me. She didn't do it long before she tensed then eased me back beside her. One night she sucked it until it got hard then put it inside her. I could ** then, I wasn't producing sperm but I could and did have **. I don't look at that time as losing my virginity but actually I did.
We eventually started doing things at home and by the time we had stopped we had done everything, all 3 holes. We stopped when she went off to college, she had initiated it every time so when she stopped it stopped.
To this day I love my sister and I do not feel like she used or took advantage of me. I learned a lot about being intimate with women from her which my wife has taken full advantage of lol. I suppose to the letter of the law I was molested but as an adult I know she was just a ** kid and the only ** she had access to was her little brother. She never told me not to say anything and we never had a conversation about it, she had her way of letting me know when she wanted to do it without saying it.
I have had my fair share of women before I married and I hear men complaining about not getting head or not swallowing or ** etc, I have never been denied anything I wanted from a woman sexually ever and I am sure it is because I know how to approach them.
I love my sister and I thank her for teaching me about pleasing women, now when I see her she doesn't effect me at all I have zero desire to do it with her again, we were just going through puberty. I understand how someone could feel used in my situation but I knew what we were doing was secret, I liked it and I liked the attention she paid to me. Our last sexual act was her giving me a bj and swallowing. I took for granted the things she did for me until I started trying to get them from other girls and that made me even more appreciative of her.
No... you were not "molested" as you fully participated and continued as you got older, so stop playing the victim.
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