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I am in love with the best man I have ever met. Yet I want to make my ex feel the pain he cased me. I want to show all the women he meets what a ** he can be and for them to watch out. He needs to be knocked down a peg or too, and until I think of a way to do this I will never stop thinking of him...
You'd be surprised how many a-hole guys feel guilty and are open to being punished for the terrible things they have done. I am one of those, and the punishment helped me see the light. Send him a simple message: "You deserve to be punished for what you did. Contact me when you are ready to accept it." Then wait and see what happens. If he doesn't contact you in a couple of months, do your best to let it go. If he does contact you, have your punishment plan ready!
My story: I confessed to my second wife all the bad things I had done to my first wife. My second wife, who is dominant, said I would never get over the guilt unless I apologized and was punished for my behavior. She gave me a severe spanking until I agreed to send my first wife an apology letter. Then she spanked me again and sent a note to my first wife saying she had punished me for the way I treated my first wife. My first wife did not reply to either note, but it helped me get over my guilt.
Not worth it. Speaking as a divorced person (male) who got his ** dumped for another guy, it's not worth it. Cut all ties, and focus on being as wildly happy in the guy you're in love in. And when you're at the peak of happiness, just realize that your ex will likely eff up with whomever he's with now if he is the ** you describe him to be. Make yourself happy first and dont look back. Have success after success on your front, and let him have epic fail after epic fail on his end. And at the end of the day, don't stick you're nose in it in any way, but laugh from afar knowing you're happy and he's a f--- up. That's the best advice I can give.