I've finally found out that that girl used me but has no respect for me..

I'm a college student who lacks in the looks dept but good in programming. A girl in my class is one of the best in the looks dept. She always came to me for help and to learn things.. When I do something for her, she'll smile and talk and have respect for that day and may be the next day.. But the third day, she'll ignore me not even looking at me. Even her friends whom I don't care for much show me great affection. This repeated for 100 times. Sometimes I ask her, but she'll say she was busy. Recently we went for a college tour.. She broke my heart ignoring my request for a photo when she took with other boys.. When the other girls asked me for a photo, she simply walked away.. That night I asked about this with 2 friends who are also friends with her.. One said, "She's ultimately worst character. Even my lover said that." Another said, "She'll simply use us and then trash us.. Your turn was over.. Simply forget that b****.." I felt like they opened my eyes.. I wanted to stay away from her.. But I keep thinking about her with whom I was friends with 3 years(or been used for 3 yrs).. I don't know what will I do if I see her tomorrow.. Give me some advice on how to behave with her..

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  • She is obviously a b****. Even your friends say so. You love the idea of her, not her. How has she treated you? Do you want that? Get over her. You are worth so much more than someone that's going to s*** all over you. Don't even think about how you're going to behave around her - just stop talking to her. If she asks you for advice on programming, tell her you're too busy, or that you're unsure. Make something up. Don't sell yourself short give her any more of yourself than you already have.

  • If the beginning is bad, what will the end be?

    Turn your life over to Jesus and ask Him to send you the right girl!

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