Can't say no

My boss is overbearing, he is much older than me, and touches me all the time. I can't say no to him, I just can't. He's made me have s** with him, and he is always really rough and domineering. I can't say no to him, when he wants me I just submit to what ever he wants to do. Afterwards I spend hours wondering why I let him do what he does, but the next time he calls me I jump and go to him for more. The more he does me the more I go back for more. I can't resist him. If he doesn't call me I get really anxious until he does and I give him anything he wants.

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  • S/he's not complaining, I don't think. I think Anon is asking for advice.

    Poster, this is called a sexually submissive state. You seem to be finding yourself liking this situation in a weird way, and if that is the case you need to have a serious talk with yourself about what your own personal boundaries are, and then you need to tell him, and he needs to respect them "You can totally do whatever you want to me except A B and C any time any place except D and E." That way you won't do something you deeply regret just because he told you to. I won't chastise you for sleeping with your boss. You're the one who actually has the power here--interoffice relations of this kind could probably get him into a lot of trouble.

  • Totally agree with this comment. In most office situations, the initial contact could have been treated as a sexual harassment situation. Which it still is, but it sounds as though it's gone beyond that to possibly a consentual relationship albeit skewed. Your best bet would be to quit, get your priorities in order and work on your own emotional/physical/mental health. Put yourself first.

  • Seriously! I struggle to understand why youre complaining. Youre responsible for everything that is happening to you and youre allowing it to happen. Fool me once,shame on you , fool me twice,shame on me, Fool me more than three times , then youre just plain old stupid.. U seem to like it if youre constantly going back for more, so UNTIL you can claim some responsibility for your actions ,stop complaining!

  • Make up your mind. You either want to do it OR you don't.

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