I wish i new what to do.....

Ok soooo im straight or so i tell myself anyways! but thers this one girl! ughh we have been friends for a while now and she was gay/bi well when i met her she was dating a girl..then she started dateing guys..but iv HAD A THNG for her sense iv met her!! everytime i get around her i get stupid and it drives me crazy! i wanna tell her soo bad but im scared if i told her id lose her forever..at least me keeping my feelings to myself i no for a fact i wont lose her! and on the other hand theres a chance if i told her it could scare her away!...ughh and idk if she even thinks of me in that way..i mean we hang out alot!! i even got her a job at the place i work...but nothin ever pays off!!! iv gotten drunk and called her and told her "im in love with you" but i chickend out and told her i was kidding....anyways...another big reason i havnt told her is because my family..i dont like useing the world homofobe but my family r bigs ones and there very important to me. and i could take a chance on loseing them if i came out i guess u could say!! i mean i see it like this if me being unhappy makes the people around me happy..thne i guess ill be unhappy..weird i no!...anyways what would u do??

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  • You could be bi. You're not weird, you're totally normal. It's actually very normal to question your sexual orientation..and sometimes you can't predict or control who you are attracted to. Maybe the question is, if you act on your feelings with this friend of yours, will she reciprocate? And if she does, would this potential relationship always have to be hidden because of your family? The family thing.. well they should love you and accept you regardless. It's your life, at the end of the day you have to be okay with decisions you make. But we all want our parents approval. Still it's yours to make. I say, speak with your friend and talk with her about the feelings you're experiencing. See if something is there and proceed from there.

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