I have been living a lie. I am in debt

I have been living a lie. I am in debt and am unable to pay bills and my husband is un aware of the debt we are in. I am at the point where I have to tell him and I am really afraid of how he will react. I have put my family in jeopardy and my relationship with my husband. I am investigating re financing our morgtage an dthe time is approaching quickly when I willhave to fess up. I have thought about why this happens and I amn just not a good manager of momney and he doesn' want to do it either. I fell horible and am heartbroken that I have fallen into this trap.

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  • were you guys on Oprah? If not check out the episodes marked "debt diet"

  • SPELLCHECK===money...horrible

  • This happened to my mom. She didn't wrk, and was getting credit cards in my step-dad's name and going on crazy shopping sprees. One day he decided he wanted anew truck, and went to get the loan at the bnk. They pulled his report an he was shocked to know that he was $50,000.00 in credit card debt. He stayed with my mom. He was upset, but he tsayed with her because he loves her. If I had ben him, I would have kicked her to the curb.

  • just put it all out on the table, and possible seek some help.

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