Just dumped my boyfriend some days ago

I dumped my first love of 3 years a few days ago because the relationship really wasn't working out. I tried everything. Communication, patience, even tough love. And now that he's driven me away, I'm starting to think he doesn't care about me if a breakup doesn't trigger anything... I try not to cry about it because I don't want my friends to know how hurt I am when they ask.

I confess that I feel unloved and hopeless. I can't trust his words.

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  • People react to breakups in different ways. Maybe he is crushed but isn't showing it. Maybe it hasn't hit him yet. Maybe after a long time of being in a relationship that wasn't working, he moved on emotionally before you guys officially broke up. I don't know, but it doesn't mean that he didn't care about you when you were together.

    But I do know, three years is alot of time to put in with someone, and breaking up, even if its the right thing, and even if its you who does the dumping, is rough. This goes double for your first relationship. Anyone who's been through a breakup understands this, and you should be able to share with your friends. They will be there for you.

    One more thing. The first breakup will be your worst. This is the first time you have felt such pain. You can't see now that the pain will subside, that you will find someone else to love and who loves you. But you will. You just have to give it time.

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