Feminine Discharge or Cheating?

My girlfriend and I live together and we have lots of problems.I think we have already broken up and its a matter of time before we separate.
I'm a sort of metosexual guy and pay attention to alot of things around our apartment.I know some women have some sort of feminine discharge that can be seen on undies.Mine has had this regularly and we discussed it before,no big deal.
For the last week,I have noticed that she takes her panties off,leaves them inside out and places them in dirty laundry baskets around the apt n such a way that I can see the discharge of them.They are soaked with it.The most was few days ago when she was gone for about 12 hours 'to get her hair done'.I woke up that morning and while in the bathroom,I noticed this.I was shocked actually.
Afew hours later I confronted her about it.It was not easy to do but I had to-it was bugging me given that we have not had s** for 3 months.
She was very offended and stated that I am snooping because we are breaking up and that every woman has that.She said I could smell it and find out that it is nothing sexual,rather some ovulation something.Her tummy hurts during s** sometimes.She claimed that she cant have s** with anybody else and contract a disease given her other problems.
I just think that she must have had s** with someone or was making out with someone.I tend to think that she is faithful but this one is got me rethinking because she is gone quite a bit lately,something she never used to do since we have kids, and have been in this city for only 3 months and know hardly anybody.She comes home in the middle of the night now.She even admitted to me that whatever place she was at,the owner asked her what I am gonna say when she came home since she had been gone all day.I did not ask who that person was-maybe the hair dresser.
Do you guys think I am over-reacting about all this?

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  • She is having s** with someone or naughty chats as I caught my wife after the messy undies I tracked her and caught them in the act .
    We are now separated ready for divorce she is 54 He was 20 and another 16 Menapause must play with there heads ,

  • Dude if she wants to hit you make sure the b**** leaves a mark and,a bruse then go straight to the police station tell tgem u want to press charges and put a restraining order on herctgey will come grab her by the short hairs make her give up all the keys to cars and house and drag her out !! After that if she texts or calls call the cops and tell them the will stop her dont listen to a word from her begging or crying she put herself in this not you

  • Kick the b**** to the curb if shes on any kind of drugs use them agianst her and make sure your not doing any for her to use against you b****** get dirty and they will s**** you without a tear of pitty f*** them all use them like they do us

  • I don't know if. My girl cheating use have her pw. To PHONE but she changed it she leaves it in kitchen to charge

  • She's f****** cheating dumbass if she doesn't return home after work and Is gone at night she's fkn cheating wake up and accept it stop trying to convince yourself she isn't

  • I think she is cheating not about discharge but about her attitude

  • Jesus, DUDE you just wrote a book from my life! we have two kids. we are 6 years apart. Our youngest kid was born 4 months ago, as of the last few weeks shes gone back to work shes come home late almost everynight. I work 5am-5pm and she always ignores my calls and texts on break saying she was in shower, sleeping, or taking care of our kids. Fathers day she left at 6 pm to take her dad his gift. I went to bed 930pm she knows that is my bedtime. She waited til 1030 to text and say she was staying the night to dye her hair. The next day i text her and asked her if she would be home at 5pm when I got home. Yea she said. I get home shes still not home. I call her, she says they are just about to dye her hair. okay wtf now... her dad es 25 minutes away not that hard to come home the night before and go back to do her hair.. well she came home the night after fathers day and sneaks in quietly and puts my daughters in their beds then slips into bed. Today I comehome and find her underwear in the bed soaking wet with yellow and brown looking crap in them no im not about to smell that s***. so out of curiosity I grab some other dirty pairs of panties from the laundry and set them all side by side. and none even compare.. She claims she wants to marry me and have a family even gave me her facebok password. But there is constantly doubts in my mind that she wont cheat again as she has in the past.

  • She let that one slip she probably forgot to put them in the washer

  • I think your reply is well reasoned out.She leaves so much and so long that I tend to think she is up to something.The day after I asked her about that discharge,we got into a big verbal fight.

    She was with someone on the phone most of the time.She told me that she has a young boyfriend who is strong,helps her with lots of stuff and phucks her really good.I was stunned by that angry admission but,I have been mentally prepared to break up with her that it did not matter much.It just baffled me because I always viewed her as "faithful",and lately, she has been saying that am sleeping with some woman out there and am therefore "contaminated" or "HIV positive" and should not sleep in her bed.I am not sleeping with any woman except her, when we were doing it, and am healthy.But how does she know whoever she is sleeping with is not any of the things shes branding me?

    I asked her about her denial the day before when I asker her if she's having s** with someone.She said simply that she did not want me to know her s***.She is extremely angry at me to a point that I think she could do me great bodily harm.I sat her down and we talked but she was shooting venom out of her mouth at me.

    What schocked me even more today,I had to find my car phone charger that I thought was in her car.I accompanied her and she let me look around.In the trunk of her car was a used alternator and a huge tool bag with lots of tools.It does not belong to her or I.I did not ask a thing.That is when I knew she has someone. She has another car with problems and I have not seen it lately,must be at the tool ownwer's house.Nobody leaves a tool bag like that unless there is great trust.

    I will just move on because this is too much drama for me.If I hadn't prepared to break up with her for long,I think yesterday would have been the worst day of my life.

  • She cheated on you. The clue is her attitude after you ask her if she was cheating. When a girl gets super defensive and starts accusing you of cheating,she's trying to make up the guilt of doing it herself so that she feels better about the situation.

  • You're a real piece of work. On the list of things the world needs, a possessive, jealous, paranoid boyfriend fails to appear. What the f*** is wrong with you, studying her panties like that? Jesus, you are pathetic.

  • It's not "paranoia" when the suspicions are correct. He wasn't inspecting her panties in an emotional vacuum. He mentioned several other signs which led him to consider the stains on her underwater.

  • Unfortunately,I am neither paranoid, possessive nor jealous.I just wanted to know because everything appeared staged to have me either notice or ask about it.

  • The fact that you are so suspicious of her will be the demise of your relationship. I agree with the comment above, discharge in her panties isn't a sign that she's cheating. Sit her down and find out what's going on, why aren't you connecting. If she is really having stomach cramps then she should have that checked out. If she's trying to find an excuse to not have s** with you...you guys have bigger problems.

  • She has had that pain checked by several doctors and they cant find a problem.Sometimes she says that there is a point in her that I hit and pain results later.She has some prescription medication,that seems to help.At times,the pain comes even if we are not having s**.
    But she has been extremely angry with me ever since we moved to a new town and state.I felt like as soon as we arrived,she did not want me around anymore.I'm moving as soon as my new apartment application is approved,she needs all the room we have in our current apt.

  • Look, if the only thing that is suspicious is the discharge on her panties, then yes you are over-reacting. The amount of discharge varies from woman to woman. It also varies during the monthly cycle. If she has some sort of infection (maybe that's why her stomach hurts) it could be even more. Quite frankly, if she was getting it somewhere else, wouldn't she be a little more concerned about covering her tracks (like changing the underwear and washing the dirty ones before you have chance to see them).

    That being said, it sounds like her behavior is being a bit shady.

  • The reply that starts with the sentence "I think your reply is well reasoned out" is a reply to this post.

  • be smart, take her panties and some of her hair to a DNA lab, and have them tested.
    There are labs that can tell you if the liquid is s**** or regular discharge.

    If you do a couple of tests then all your doubts will blur, and if you feel your relationship is ending why are you still with her?

  • I can understand the paranoia when you can't get a solid answer. If you have the bravery to cheat you should have it to tell the significant other. If she were to find your underwear with stains in the front, what would she say? It's always hard to put the shoes on your own feet and see it from someone else's perspective.

  • Nice idea,I would have done that if I were married or had a lot to lose.She has given me problems for 3 years so won't trouble myself with DNA.I did DNA on out two kids though and they are both mine.

  • I read this because my girlfriend is an escort and when we f*** she has white discharge, is it c** or her fluid?

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