Being really careful with money all the
Being really careful with money all the time - and begrudging people with more money than you - it's one of the worst character flaws going. It's so damned offputting, unsexy and unattractive. To suffer from mean-spiritedness and to have no generosity is a major, MAJOR turn-off.
So why is it so difficult to forget this person and move on? I just don't get it.