Forgot my birth control pills

I've been dating a guy for 6 months, and I have officially gone off the pill without telling him. He is five years away from being ready to have kids, so I can't just sit around and wait for him to get ready when I'm ready now.

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  • What a b****... You can't force a guy to be ready! Thats why guys run away, theres no guarantee that he'll stick with you after you have the baby.

  • Having a family should be something that all involved plan for and look forward to. Your guys is smart, he's planning for a future and being honest with you. You on the other hand, you're selfish, deceitful and pathetic and willing to trap this guy into a life with you. If you want to have a baby, then go to a sperm bank where no one has to take responsibilities for their actions but YOU. You probably think this guy will marry you and you'll live happily ever after. I hope this guy wises up and realizes what a truly conniving b**** you are. You're really f***** up, you definitely should not have children..GROW UP.

  • Who said anything about marriage? My boyfriend is a really nice guy and really good looking but we're not in love our anything. If we keep dating and get married some day, great. If not, I am happy to be a single mother. I'm not trying to force him into a shotgun wedding, so I don't really see what the big deal is.

  • does that mean you wont make him pay child support when you two split?

  • Why don't you just stop dating him and find someone else who actually wants to have a baby? I mean, it sounds like you're not all that attached to him anyways. Don't drag him into something he's not ready for just because its what you want.

  • You are what is wrong with our society! Selfish and not thinking about anyone but yourself. When you get bored with your child, make sure you put it up for adoption so it has some chance at a good life!

  • Bad idea. You are not mature enough to have a kid, and certainly not with this guy against his will.

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