I hate my stepson w/ a passion! His

I feel your frustration! I hate mine and he's a 25 year old free loading **. He has nothing because he never worked to get anything. His mom and dad always paved his way thru life and now he's a useless piece of **!!! Everyone is sick of helping him except his dad. I am In the middle because I married his dad 2 years ago. His presence disgust me too. He's here in my house sucking the life out of his dad and it's affecting my marriage! I want him to get out!!!!! I can't take it anymore!

OMG. You sound just like me. I just want him GONE. He steals, lies, and is generally just a pain in my **. His dad has "talks" with him. I wish someone would beat his **!!!! He is a no good liar like his mother.
I wish they would move far away and get lost.

Same here. It **! The little twatwad had the ** to tell me and his dad to ** off. Then called me a ** and said he hated me his whole life. Twatwad is 17. Dont think me and his father will make it because daddy dearest thinks he is a great kid ( smokes pot, steals liquor, trouble in school, stole our car when he didnt even have a license, got left back in 10th grade, etc...) this is sad for us because daddy dearest and i have an 11 year old together.

What a piece of ** human. Hopefully that kid gets killed

Lmfaoooooooo

** sounds like he should had been sucked through a tube a 12 weeks gestation!

My stepson has made my life a living ** for the past 12 years. I totally hate him. I would be writing for days to explain everything he has done to me to ruin my life. I really love my husband so I decided to stay because I know one day devil boy will move out of my house. He is pure evil

Devil boy may never leave. This is my fear. 11 months and he is supposed to go but i doubt he will.

Omg I am so freaking glad my stepson is gone I hate him so much and I hate he makes me feel this way.he always is trying to freaking get married to every girl he meets like that is gonna solve his major hygiene issues and smartass mouth not to mention he is dirt dog lazy. My fear is he will actually have a kid with this bubble guppy looking gf he has. God forbid his ** makes it to her egg.my wife will not tell them straight up they are not capable of being married or parents. My stepson tried to kill me and his mom and my one year old with her. He returned home and parked the car in downstairs garage with motor running. I noticed gas smell through vents. I wish I could punch his ugly face into the pine trees out back

He's a infected **!

My stepson is 25, I married his mother 15 years ago. and she still babies him, and yup he is still living with us, no job, no school, doesn't pay rent. no worries other than his playstation. I once thought he would move out, but he is the master of creating chaos for his benefit, like sabotaging his own car just so he had an excuse not to go to work.

Kill the **

Hahaha...exactly

Now I just feel like I rather this child leave my house. He has caused a lot of stress on me/us and horrible feelings i wouldn't have normally had if they were to just act right. They undermine my love and tell him what he should and shouldn't be doing with his oldest son. I'm about threw with his oldest son he is disrespectful mouthy and I just don't want to deal with him anymore. I much rather the grandparents just take the child away. I wish so badly the mother would get her ** together and take this kid just take him away. I have never felt like this about any child he is a young adult and needs to ship up or out. I've told my love how i feel about this kid and really don't want this kid around me or my kids. I view him as an infection. I want nothing to do with. He is dirty mouthy disresectful hateful blames me for everything around him changing and not having grandparents or a mother. locks himself inside his room eats away from the family on the other side of the table
I'm started to resent this child for even being born in the first place I hate this child and wish him gone every hour of the day I can not wait until he is out of my house. six more years and hes out. I've even told my future husband how i feel about him and told him if he wants to leave me thats fine too... the sooner the child will leave the best. He said he completely understands why i feel this way and his family is to blame he is sickned by how they treat the other children and wants nothing to do with them ever again. he just wanted to see if things had changed over the year.
While the oldest boy got new 100.00 shoes new coat new outfits giftcards games football and im sure more than just want i remember my son got a snow suit a size too big for him two ten dollarr outfits s from walmart and toys from the dollar bin. while my parents got them the same amount to be equal. I wish he was never born His father wasnt there for the birth and wasn't happy she was preg with the child.

I Have a two year old with my loving soon to be husband. He has had this mistake of a child years before us and before he was ready to be serious and have a loving family.
I had never better felt any type of way about his other child in fact i felt bad the child didn't seem to have a loving mother that did right by her first born or her other children which left zero respect for this horrible example of a mother placed in front of him which left him scared from abandonment and other things I wish not to get into.
It all started with the grandparents the way they treated my son and made it out to be some ugly compatishtion between this 10 year old and this new born. I felt their hearts just wasn't in the correct place for them to mistreat a poor innocent child like they were completely acting as if he had the pleag and the older brother acted like thanks to dad I'm not the only one!!! I just felt like I needed to get away from these twisted people. and so We did and cut ties with them... needless to say the grandmother was being relentless about asking to see the one yet again and I just flat out told the love of my life if your going to have relations with her or them, maybe we need to just cut ties bc I wasn't going to have this battle I did not plan on going to any events, family get together nothing... They would never have my son alone and I can never forgive them.
He really wanted his mother within his life or the grandmother however you want to call her?? I'm pregnant with our second child and all he can think of is on another new baby? I'm not going to be able to do anything football everyday nothing.... just great....
He has since not been allowed to see his real mother because of her being in jail all the time and if she ever does its supervised bc they do not trust her. The grandparents when we first moved out went to low to contact the jailbirdmother to seek the out the oldest boy. It was unbearable to see them go so low unbelievable

Hello.... I've posted before regarding my step.... He has seemingly gotten better over the past year living with me. I still feel strongly about this child but he seems to be adjusting and so have I.... We have went for full custody because his Mother is just a horrible person an even worst Mother and Drug user and dealer... She has been in and out of Jail the past 3 months at least a dozen times and I'm not even kidding.... I'm expecting our second child together and We have just told him right before Christmas.... I'm 6 months along and its just getting to the point where he should notice before to long.... He has made comments about not wanting anymore brothers well guess what... Its another boy this will be my second son and my last.... He has two other brothers of which are within the welfare system young 6 and 4 I believe..... He sees them about one or twice a month but they are in a much better place than with her...
I'm just not happy with his mouth and how he talks to his Father he also seems to treat my son differently than he does his first. I wish his Mother wasn't such a complete loser!! We live in my House and I have a three bedroom and I just feel some type of way cramping both my children in one room and having this mouthy disrespectful mistake of a child with me.... I just don't have the closeness and bonding or relations with his punk kid... I'm counting the days he is 18@!@@

Omg my step son is freaking a lunatic ! Just like his mother is she is schizophrenia! And my husband is sooo in denial! And it shredding our marriage! And before you people go hating me let me tell you my husband has never had anything to do with this almost grown boy! And all if a sudden he comes here after two years of not seeing or hearing from the kid because mommy has been hospitalized once again for being a crazy **! And this kid is absolutely retarded he can't bath himself he can't brush his teeth and won't unless I stay I'm his lazy ** and. Has a bad eating disorder and I have taken him to dr after dr and get the same answer he needs to be test in the hospital for a while because he shows signs of. Sociopath , pathological liar and schizophrenia but they are unsure which one or maybe two of them and my husband refuses to listen to the drs! So last night my husband hit my in the face because I have once again stressed the fact I can't do it any longer! my husband spends no time with him or handles school things when he is in trouble etc I do everything for this kid and all I get is ** on! this kid ** in my floor he is 16 almost 17 come on no excuse he can remember his Xbox but can't remember where to point his ** to pee! My husband has nothing to do with this kid at all he won't even set in the living room and watch a movie partly because nobody I mean nobody even his grandparents family can't stand to be around him for any amount of time . ** my hubby's parents haven't seen or talk to him in almost 6 years and his brothers hubby's other kids haven't seen him longer than that! thats how ** annoying! And for all you smart mouthed ** who think we are being selfish ** you you do it and see how it is when the kids are mental!

Sweetie, I so understand!!

You have my sympathies bro. My signif others 17 yr old is ** nasty, lazy manipulative and a drama queen. NEVER GETS DISCIPLINED. Im hoping one day he will take himself out like his equally ** mother who was a ** up nutjobs and bully **.

It would be a blessing if my stepson would just be gone by any means necessary. Whether it's kidnappingoing, murdered, suicide, doesn't matter. He's a huge waste of skin. He's abusive to ours and others animals, disrespectful, mouthy, illiterate, careless, horribly disrespectful, piece of garbage child. He's 8 turning 9, not disciplined, nor am I allowed to even suggest without being ridiculed in front of this horrible spawn. Which doesn't help ** all. ** hate him

I don't like my step son he is a piece of ** and a mistake.

Yup. My stepson is garbage. I literally wish he would get hit by a car. He's certainly stupid enough. And both is parents encourage the little brat. It's disgusting and I literally HATE his guts. I fully intend on moving to the opposite coast. Even seeing him every other Sunday is enough because he's ** stupid. He's cute, but that doesn't even matter based upon his demanding, **, whiny, **-like, monstrous behavior. He is a pebble in my shoe.

A hindrance in happiness for sure

Lmfaoooooooo real ** and to the point!

** you stepmothers your all terrible people, you think this is a joke? its ** not; you made the commitment now live by it you ** pieces of **, I hope you all burn in **.

F-U horrible step children that are nothing but a waste of skin taking up my air, my time and poisoning my home with your **. I made a commitment to my husband not his psychopathic ** of a son. I have two other step children who I love very much. SOMETIMES A ** IS A **, no matter what you do to try to get through, some kids, especially psychopathic kids like my step-son should come with the option to euthanize them like a rabid dig. My ** of a step son would have been the first in line for this solution. The kid will only grow up to be an even bigger **, and I hope someone puts him down or he gets locked up before he ends up hurting someone and their family. I have never hated anyone, and I love kids, I deal with the guilt about the way I feel about this ** of a kid I have, but the guilt does not change that seeing him get hit by a bus would offer nothing more than an abundance sheer relief.

I ** agree.

** you, you piece of scum.

** you burn your crazy ** kids in ** with yourself

Get **.

** you. You're probably one of the ** bio parents that raise these botch aborted ** **, you **!

I completely understand I look at my stepson with disgust. I tried getting along with him after all i love my husband. But I look at his kid and feel sick to my stomache. He is 13 and has the worst hygiene ever. He always has his dirty hands in his nose or down his pants and is always wanting to dig his slimy hands In whatever I make. He is rude has no manners but acts like a spoiled brat who everyone's world should revolve around.
He has the worst mouth always cussing and forget ever taking him in public. He acts like he is 2 years old in a store when he sees a toy. Eww my kids will never act that way and get away with it!
As I'm watching him eat now he is shoveling spaghetti into his mouth with his hands!
I've been trying to teach him manners but he doesn't want to learn. I don't understand how someone could be so comfortable being so disgusting!
The worst is he doesn't listen to me or his dad he is just out of control and very soon I will make sure he moves elsewhere let his mother take care of him since she let him become this way let her fat smelly ** deal with him. I can't wait until he is out of my home!

I told my better half that I just can't take it anymore. He wants to give it more time. However I just don't see this working out. I rather the kid just not even know my son be around me or my son. The child is 11 going on 6 acts like he can't do anything himself hates school hates work hates everything that takes him away from him video games. He has no friends and he can be sitting some place like at the dinner table and start laughing... I think he needs an evaluation I found glass pieces in my food, my sons toys destroyed. he has no respect and just expects everything just be given to him... When his brother was just 6 months old He mouthed off at his Paternal Grandparent for wanting a photo of her Grandsons... saying.... "GRANDSONS?? YEAHHH THANKS TO DAD!!!!" I find this whole situation completely sick and twisted... I want out NOW!

I have a similar problem I love my fiancée and our life together is great. But he has 3 kids from his ex wife and he has full custody. One thing that attracted me to him was his love for his kids. The kids are 7, 13 and 14 and although their mother is rarely in the picture and never does anything for the kids. I buy them clothes and take them to doctors and have to play the mother role. I try and want to love the kids and somedays I do. But in the end I don't like them. They are spoiled rotten brats! All 3 of them! My fiancée having to do everything alone for so long has let them become this way and is now trying to change what's been done.
The 13 year old has aspergers and ADHD and although I understand he has problems he is also spoiled and his father is afraid to discipline him in any way whatsoever so I have to be the bad guy and I get punched and screamed at by a kid who is much bigger then me and in the end his dad wags his ** and says next time ill spank you or next time ill take a toy from you! ** just take it away now when this happens daily and he hears that threat daily he won't believe you!
The 14 year old is just lazy all she wants to do is stay on the Internet. I have found her ** pads hidden in the shower and have found her dirty underwear on the living room floor and I have to tell her to pick them up. Although she is most respectful of the 3 kids even though she does nothing I ask when her dad isn't home ( such as doing her dishes)
Now the 7 year old I adore her and she is the most helpful an neat of the kids she is the most mouthy she constantly screams to get her way has started stealing and lies about everything. She even took a knife outside one day and threatened to stab anyone who made her mad!
I don't hate these kids but I don't love them at all! I wish their mom would do her job so I can be the fun step mom!

I have had about all I can take of this child, It wasn't always like this in the beginning however with such events like the grandparents ignoring my child. Comments being thrown around. Between the crazy Grandparents, Lice, Bugs, The State and the Drug addicted Mother abandoning her own son without so much as even a phone call?? I have had about all I can take of this child... He plays the Victim very well and is always looking for excitement from a fight and or aggruement of which he starts eggs on and or creates... We share a son together but I'm so ready to pack everything up and move out of state bc I will NOT allow my son to look up to a child like that! NOWAY! I have tryed speaking to him about making a choice for yourself to live a better life, You don't have to live with bugs and lice in your hair, His response is "I can't help that?" He even invited friends to come stay at his Mothers house with an over flowing septic Bugs and Lice!!! He doesn't care at 11 years old?? He could effect anyone even his half brother me and his father?? His mentality is warped and lacks common thought process. I have about had it. I'm looking about leaving my fiance He has bought me a ring and everything. I just can't be committed to such a nightmare. I know I seemingly came off ** about my stepson but I've been dealing with this mess for over three years now! Its only getting worse and I have my own child to teach and live for! This child is a waste of my time and energy and I'm gonna focus on my own before someone else s !!! I feel extremely bad for my own son and thank the lord he doesn't understand whats happening right now! His Father will surely side with his oldest even though he loves us and wants us to be a family Knowing this germ of a child only has one parent that's normal he wouldn't just turn his back on him. I know if i stay I will resent him for placing all this havoc onto me anyway.. Or my son will look up to a discussing firth! LET ME OUT!

I wish my step son would just go live with his Mother! It is so nasty him coming within my clean home and finding hes loaded with head-lice!.. This kid causing nothing but havoc and complete disgust he is nasty! His very presence in my home causes my stomach to turn. I have to spray and disinfect everthing this kid touches I don't allow him to bring any bags within my home to do cockroaches that maybe trasported from her home into mine! The kid has to get a shower and have a lice treatment every time he comes here....
This child was just a complete mistake that happened years ago of which he begged her to aboard the child and wanted no part of it... He wasn't present at the birth... But has had pitty on the child because she is such an unfit parent
Shes had two other children and has no clue where the father is She has been in jail and lost the other two kids and had been awarded to the state... Now I have the state coming to MY HOME because of this Mistake of a child and Her being so unfit and a drug addidit that would sell her kids for a bag of dobe! I have my own son of which we are fine and happy as long as this ** waste of a child isn't around....
I hate him even living here and wish to god he would just OD on his mothers Drugs! I don't want him infecting my home or my child! I wish he would just be gone! I feel zero pitty on this child that doesnt care how he lives or that he can effect another one else..... having his friends come to stay with him at his Mothers.... UGH!!!! I'm just sickined by this ** up and wish he would just go away!!!! forever!!!
I wouldn't miss him or think about him ever!~~~