Why is he acting so weird? Advice Please!

I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 15. We've been together for more than 2 years and about a year into the relationship he started acting weird. Now all of a sudden I can't wear high heels or dresses anymore; I don't normally dress that way because I'm the shy type, not the outgoing, spontaneous type like him but I have to for job interviews and such. I don't go out much but when I do want to go to a movie with friends he never wants me to go. I'll be going to college soon and it's just getting worse and worse. I don't know what to do about it. I really love him and this is my first relationship ever. He's my first everything and I'm trying to figure out exactly what's happening with him and why he is acting this way.

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  • He is too controlling. Dump his sorry ass. No one should be allowed to control another person. Believe me, I was in a relationship like that before.

  • i think if you really want a positive relationship with him and for it to last with you being happy you need to tell him that he cannot control any aspect of your life. he is welcome to his opinion and let him know that you value it, but the only person who has a right to dictate how you life your life is you(within reason...no killing people lol) Maybe you guys are just too serious for a first relationship. it could be time to see other people

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